rcknrobin
New Member
hi ladies,
how long did you and your husband wait to have children?
my husband is currently working on a PHd and it will prob be another 4 or 5 years until he finishes (making me 29 or 30). secondary to his research, we are stuck here in houston (yuck) and unable to take nice, extended international vacations. so i'm torn between having a child soon so her/she will be of age and old enough to travel once my husband finishes..or wait until im 29 or 30..and risk not being able to travel for another number of years b/c they are babies.
i know its personal preference..but just wondering how long you guys waited and what were the conditions for deciding when to have a child?
how long did you and your husband wait to have children?
my husband is currently working on a PHd and it will prob be another 4 or 5 years until he finishes (making me 29 or 30). secondary to his research, we are stuck here in houston (yuck) and unable to take nice, extended international vacations. so i'm torn between having a child soon so her/she will be of age and old enough to travel once my husband finishes..or wait until im 29 or 30..and risk not being able to travel for another number of years b/c they are babies.
i know its personal preference..but just wondering how long you guys waited and what were the conditions for deciding when to have a child?