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THAT *@#%$ CUT MY HAIR OFF! (long rant inside)

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I am sorry this happened to you. But it still looks beautiful. Throw it up in a bun for a while to take your mind off of what she did. That might help. And do you have anyone who can cut your hair for you? Friend or family member.
 
Oh man I would be soooo pissed! :wallbash: Was it really necessary to cut all the way back to APL??!?? :nono: Hugs to you hon. So sorry.
 
Sorry Chica... I know that sucks. But at least now you know you can get to BSL.... You'll get back there in no time... Also, good thing you found out at BSL that you can't trust your stylist. Imagine if you went in there at MBL and you found out that she doesn't know a trim from a cut...

Sending big hugs your way AND I love you Joel Osteen quote!!!
She'd be 8 feet under right now! What is it that Madea said? I'd stomp her down two more feet :lachen:
Did she cut a different amount than what she showed you/pointed to? It really does look nice.
According to the pics, way more :nono:

Here was my hair in March of this year:
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I've been hiding my hair since then, so I was brushing BSL this month and just wanted to straighten for my length pics. Now I'm here (repost):

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I am glad my ends look so good, but DANG!
 
Your hair is shorter, but still nice, full and healthy. I'm am very sorry that happened to you. And yes, arguing about it, won't help. She'll just do the "nut role".. and keep it moving - especially after receiving that big tip of yours.

It doesn't seem you are a "slow grower", so i bet you'll be back posting your progress in less than 6 months.

Keep us updated!!
 
It looks really good, then again, I'm a sucker for blunt ends. It'll grow in better than it was before.
 
aww man ((hugs)) sorry to hear about your situation, I def understand where your coming from, alot of us have been there. but your hair still looks beautiful, thick and healthy hopefully karma will just come back youll surpass bsl =)
 
im not sure if this will make you feel better - i remember being where you are on so many occasions until i made up my mind not to allow them to touch my hair with scissors, i cut my own hair now - that being said, your hair really looks great - it looks fuller and healthier so to me it looks like, and i am going by the pictures, cant tell what it is or was in person but it looks like she took off ends that didnt look as healthy as they could. i bet your hair will grow back faster this time, my mom always told me that not so healthy ends slow down your growth and i think she is right, i dont know how fast your hair normally grows, but if it grows at the average 1/2 inch per month, which from what i see from your picture would put you well in to bsl, and well on your way to mbl by the end of this year. chin up, and keep up the great work!!!
 
the more i look the more i like your hair now - - -i dont think she did as bad as you think, what she took was holding you back - imho - your hair really looks beautiful.
 
I'm so sorry this happened, chica! I can't tell you how many times I've been scalped by scissor happy stylists over the years. If I knew about this forum years ago, I'd have hair to my butt by now! Cheer up, and know that it will most def grow back. Your hair is beautiful, you have a fresh trim now, and I too think you will, like the other ladies said, make it to BSL by the end of the year.

Thanks again to Havilland for posting Traycee's K.I.S.S. link to the search and destroy method; I plan on doing that hardcore after I get my braids out since I've seen hairs in the natural portion of my hair sticking up a bit.

HHG!
 
This really sucks! But you can probably get BSL before the year is up. Keep doing what you were doing to get there in the first place and you'll get it back in no time. I learned a long time ago not to let anyone else trim my hair but me. The only other person I let near my hair with shears is my mother and she lives 12 hrs away from me. Lol.
 
I can only imagine you put yr trust in a professional and not realize until much later much more was taken off then agreed:wallbash:! Luckily your hair will come back. I know about the time and effort and patience it has taken to achieve mbl. But at least if nothing eles you know it will grow back. Big hugs to you girl.

:kissing4::grouphug:
 
HUGS!!! Lilsparkle825, I agree with Nonie, NJoy and others. Although it is shorter, it looks very full and healthy and I bet you will get to BSL in no time. Like IDareT'sHair, I'm praying for a Summer Growth Spurt for all as well. :) Be confident and positive!!! You are beautiful!!!
 
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Its never a good feeling when someone takes liberties with your hair but your ends look AMAZING!
 
It still looks great lilsparkle :) You'll be BSL by the end of the year. Splitender possibly! for next time. I will be investing in one by the years end. I had this same set back before!

You took the words "right out of my mouth."
 
I hate hearing about stuff like this which is why I stopped going to hair stylists. They''l cut your hair whether it needs it or not. Fight the perfectionist in yourself and trim your own hair!
 
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