clarity2008
New Member
TALKING TO A BRICK WALL!
For the past few years I have been sick and I do a lot of research about the illness online, just because doctors have not been helping at all. Anywho, to make a long story short, SO came home today and I was telling him about an article I read about a woman who was having identical issues and she also talked about solutions that have helped her (because her dr was usless as well). I was kind of just summarizing the article just to share it with him and compare/contrast with my situation. Everytime I said something about what this woman in the article had done to help herself or something strange that happened he would have a rebuttal.
Example:
Me: She said that she had taken the medication and the day after she stopped she got sick again.
SO: Well maybe she wasn't taking the meds the way she was supposed to. (When he knows good and well that this is NOT NOT NOT easily treated with meds!)
Me: Maybe. She also said that "x" happened when she did "z". And...(he cuts me off)
SO: She was probably doing it the wrong way.
Me: Well she was pretty detailed and I don't think she was doing it incorrectly.
SO: You don't know who she is. She could be crazy.
Me:
...and the cycle continued until I finally got so frustrated and gave up and told him that he was missing the point. I was telling him about the article simply beacuse it was interesting and I have not come across many articles/blogs/whatever that deal with the same illness I have. I wasn't reading it to him so that he could critique her and the way that she was handling things. I don't have an issue with him having his own opinion but it was like, JUST LISTEN!! DAYUM!! Its like he has to hit a certain word count everyday or something. Was I wrong to snap? Is he MENstruating?
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For the past few years I have been sick and I do a lot of research about the illness online, just because doctors have not been helping at all. Anywho, to make a long story short, SO came home today and I was telling him about an article I read about a woman who was having identical issues and she also talked about solutions that have helped her (because her dr was usless as well). I was kind of just summarizing the article just to share it with him and compare/contrast with my situation. Everytime I said something about what this woman in the article had done to help herself or something strange that happened he would have a rebuttal.
Example:
Me: She said that she had taken the medication and the day after she stopped she got sick again.
SO: Well maybe she wasn't taking the meds the way she was supposed to. (When he knows good and well that this is NOT NOT NOT easily treated with meds!)
Me: Maybe. She also said that "x" happened when she did "z". And...(he cuts me off)
SO: She was probably doing it the wrong way.
Me: Well she was pretty detailed and I don't think she was doing it incorrectly.
SO: You don't know who she is. She could be crazy.
Me:
...and the cycle continued until I finally got so frustrated and gave up and told him that he was missing the point. I was telling him about the article simply beacuse it was interesting and I have not come across many articles/blogs/whatever that deal with the same illness I have. I wasn't reading it to him so that he could critique her and the way that she was handling things. I don't have an issue with him having his own opinion but it was like, JUST LISTEN!! DAYUM!! Its like he has to hit a certain word count everyday or something. Was I wrong to snap? Is he MENstruating?
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