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Cruzankink said:
Bublin I use 6 afro puffs instead of plats. I don't want to keep putting/removing the hair bands though. Next wash day I'll see if I can prepoo, CW and DC w/o taking out the bands.

Can you section with those foam flexirods? That is what I use when I don't want to pull on my hair.

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Can you section with those foam flexirods? That is what I use when I don't want to pull on my hair.

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That's a good idea. I am looking for new ways. I love my barrettes but some of them have broken and they don't sell them anymore :sad:
 
Can you section with those foam flexirods? That is what I use when I don't want to pull on my hair.

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Good idea :yep:
I can't use clips or thin bands as they would tangle up in my hair.
 
Hello! Am coming in. Need some help. Struggling with moisture. I give up on the natural hair hairs. They change the formula up too often. Hate wasting money on products that do not work.
 
Loves Harmony said:
Hello! Am coming in. Need some help. Struggling with moisture. I give up on the natural hair hairs. They change the formula up too often. Hate wasting money on products that do not work.

What is natural hair hairs?

What is your regimen and products used?

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Take a section of hair wrap the rod around the base of your hair. Do not roll up your hair. The ends are out. Repeat. You can wash, rinse and condition a section at a time.

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What is natural hair hairs?

What is your regimen and products used?

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I am 4b

Wash one a week
Shampoo aphogee moisture shampoo
Dc with Camille rose alge dc
Leave in Camille rose moisture milk or Paul Mitchell the conditioner then seal with oil

Wear hair out daily/ wet to retwist at night then seal

Taking back the Camille rose moisture milk that I purchase from target. The ingredient different from online and my hair don't response.
 
Hello! Am coming in. Need some help. Struggling with moisture. I give up on the natural hair hairs. They change the formula up too often. Hate wasting money on products that do not work.

What do you mean that you are struggling with moisture? Saw your regimen below.

1. After you seal how are you styling your hair?
2. How does your hair feel the next day?
3. When does it start to feel dry?
4. What oil are you using to seal?
5. What is the weather like where you are?

You are wearing your hair out daily, so it is not uncommon to dry out daily.
 
List your reggi and products *SkolarStar* so we can assist! :yep:

I wash my hair once a week with trader joe's nourish spa shampoo.

Condition with dark and lovely au naturale conditioner (I got a free bottle and wanted to try it out) I usually use AO HSR but my results haven't changed. It still feels dry after I rinse.

Twist with shea moisture curl enhancing smoothie and seal with oil combo (castor, olive, wheat germ, EOs)

It's pretty simple. Maybe I'm just uber dry. And my ends are clipped.

And I want to get a sew-in but I want to get this breakage under control first so my hair doesn't continue to break under the weave.

DarkJoy faithVA HanaKuroi ronie
 
My bantu knot out was beautiful yesterday. Today its a shrunken mess. I failed to band my hair properly last night (just being lazy). I will retry tonight hopefully tomorrow is a better day.
 
I wash my hair once a week with trader joe's nourish spa shampoo.

Condition with dark and lovely au naturale conditioner (I got a free bottle and wanted to try it out) I usually use AO HSR but my results haven't changed. It still feels dry after I rinse.

Twist with shea moisture curl enhancing smoothie and seal with oil combo (castor, olive, wheat germ, EOs)

It's pretty simple. Maybe I'm just uber dry. And my ends are clipped.

And I want to get a sew-in but I want to get this breakage under control first so my hair doesn't continue to break under the weave.

@DarkJoy @faithVA @HanaKuroi @ronie
I just so happened to be lurking this thread and stumbled upon your post.

From my experience the AO HSR and the Shea Moisture did nothing for my natural hair. Neither one of them provided moisture.

Perhaps you can try a different deep conditioner and moisturizer. I currently don't have any suggestions for a deep conditioner. I'm looking for a good one myself. As for the moisturizer I use and have great success with Qhemet's Amla and Olive Heavy Cream. When I run out of the Qhemet I use a mix of shea butter and oils.
 
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*SkolarStar*[/USER];18132221]I wash my hair once a week with trader joe's nourish spa shampoo.

Condition with dark and lovely au naturale conditioner (I got a free bottle and wanted to try it out) I usually use AO HSR but my results haven't changed. It still feels dry after I rinse.

Twist with shea moisture curl enhancing smoothie and seal with oil combo (castor, olive, wheat germ, EOs)

It's pretty simple. Maybe I'm just uber dry. And my ends are clipped.

And I want to get a sew-in but I want to get this breakage under control first so my hair doesn't continue to break under the weave.

DarkJoy faithVA HanaKuroi ronie

Does your hair feel good with the conditioner on but not so good when you rinse?

Do you color your hair or use any type of chemical service on your hair?

Do you blow dry your hair? When was the last time you straightened it?

Do you do protein treatments at all? If so when was the last one?

Does your hair feel greasy when you take out the twist?

Does the Shea Moisture soak into your strands?
 
What do you mean that you are struggling with moisture? Saw your regimen below.

1. After you seal how are you styling your hair?
2. How does your hair feel the next day?
3. When does it start to feel dry?
4. What oil are you using to seal?
5. What is the weather like where you are?

You are wearing your hair out daily, so it is not uncommon to dry out daily.

I usual twist my hair afterwards. It feel moist for just a day. I use almond oil or grapeseed oil. It's chilly.
 
I wash my hair once a week with trader joe's nourish spa shampoo.

Condition with dark and lovely au naturale conditioner (I got a free bottle and wanted to try it out) I usually use AO HSR but my results haven't changed. It still feels dry after I rinse.

Twist with shea moisture curl enhancing smoothie and seal with oil combo (castor, olive, wheat germ, EOs)

It's pretty simple. Maybe I'm just uber dry. And my ends are clipped.

And I want to get a sew-in but I want to get this breakage under control first so my hair doesn't continue to break under the weave.

@DarkJoy @faithVA @HanaKuroi @ronie
@*SkolarStar* Saw the Dark and Lovely and knew that might be the problem. Their products are sh*t! :nono:

D & L Au Naturale Conditioner ingredients:

AQUA / WATER / EAU, CETEARYL ALCOHOL, ELAEIS GUINEENSIS OIL / PALM OIL, BEHENTRIMONIUM CHLORIDE, PARFUM / FRAGRANCE, GLYCERIN PHENOXYETHANOL, ISOPROPYL ALCOHOL, STEARAMIDOPROPYL DIMETHYLAMINE, MANGIFERA INDICA SEED OIL / MANGO SEED OIL, CAPRYLIC/CAPRIC TRIGLYCERIDE, CITRIC ACID, CHLORHEXIDINE DIHYDROCHLORIDE, BENZYL SALICYLATE, LINALOOL, BAMBUSA VULGARIS EXTRACT

Might as well pour rubbing alcohol and lemon juice on your head at the same time. Both are extremely drying! Always read the labels!

Chile, you need to throw that away and save your hair with some AO condish products!

ETA: Use a clarifying shampoo next time to be sure you get all that BS out your hair. Keep us updated!

ETA2: DC your strands afterwards for a few hours with a protein-free moisture only product
 
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kandake said:
I just so happened to be lurking this thread and stumbled upon your post.

From my experience the AO HSR and the Shea Moisture did nothing for my natural hair. Neither one of them provided moisture.

Perhaps you can try a different deep conditioner and moisturizer. I currently don't have any suggestions for a deep conditioner. I'm looking for a good one myself. As for the moisturizer I use and have great success with Qhemet's Amla and Olive Heavy Cream. When I run out of the Qhemet I use a mix of shea butter and oils.

Did you use aohsr on dry hair or wet hair?

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Bublin: I wash and condition my hair and plaits, and I don't undo them often. The only time that I take my hair out of plaits during the wash process is when I'm reapplying conditioner.
 
Hello Ladies! This is my very 1st time replying to any thread, I've had my profile for a while now but just recently became active to get ideas on how to get my hair past it's BSL (the longest it's ever been)

Hair profile? 3A, thick, 1" away from full BSL

Reggie and products? I cowash at least once a week with V05 clarifying or Suave Tropical Coconut. I DC after wash with either real mayonnaise, Aussie 3 min miracle, or organic root stimulator replenishing pack. I use coconut oil after every wash. I worship edge control lol and I only use shampoo when I flat iron my hair

How do you style your hair? High or low buns, 2 french braids tucked, or flat ironed (I've been w/o heat since Oct 2012)

What problems do you have with your hair? My hair is dry especially when it's in a bun. I don't see much progress. I have A LOT of shedding (I plan on trimming my ends this week)

Can y'all share some tips on products, styles & reggie's to help me out PLEASE!!!! ;)
 
You don't have a moisturizing anything?

Do you know about moisturizing and sealing?

I do not think a clarifying conditioner is necessary. How often do you use it?

Coconut oil is not moisture.

I can't see any mentions on my IPhone. PM me if it is a must see. Allons y
 
You don't have a moisturizing anything?

Do you know about moisturizing and sealing?

I do not think a clarifying conditioner is necessary. How often do you use it?

Coconut oil is not moisture.

I can't see any mentions on my IPhone. PM me if it is a must see. Allons y

I don't use the clarifying cond that often only when I run out of suave.
That may be part of the problem, I thought the coconut oil would be ok for a moisturizer.
As far as anything else that is moisturizing, no. I'm going to assume that's my problem there lol
I don't know much about moisturizing & sealing but I do add a little oil on my ends about every 2-3 days.
 
a_will143 said:
I don't use the clarifying cond that often only when I run out of suave.
That may be part of the problem, I thought the coconut oil would be ok for a moisturizer.
As far as anything else that is moisturizing, no. I'm going to assume that's my problem there lol
I don't know much about moisturizing & sealing but I do add a little oil on my ends about every 2-3 days.

Oil is a sealer.

I like Qhemets Biologics burdock root butter, alma and olive oil or their cocoa tree dangling ghee sealed with jbco.

I use oyin hair dew almost every day sealed with jbco.

I use darcy's pumpkin conditioner, curljunkie curl rehab, aubrey's organics HSR, gpb or milcreek botanicals conditioners for light protein. I cowash with these and dc with them.

I used to cowash with vo5 but I need more moisture.

Check this thread again tomorrow. All of the other ladies are in bed but will share their wisdom and give suggestions. :)

Eta: we will have you at full bsl in no time.


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Welcome @a_will143!!

Well I'm curious about that real mayonaise. Most regular name brands are chock full of chemicals and preservatives--like 20 ingredients for mayo! All have a lot of salt and some use a little lemon juice or citric acid to flavor them, both are very drying. If you're using one of the organic ones it might be OK, though. Have a look at the label for the curious ones...

If you wanna make a homemade mayo just beat an egg in a bowl with some olive oil.

Might also be time to clarify. Us co-washers (I LOVE V05!!!) gotta do that every now and again.

Here;s to breaking BSL!!
 

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