Hi all, I hope you can help me.
I have been natural since May 2007 and I am still shoulder length. When I first BCd the intention wasnt to go natural but rather I was at a transitional point in my life and cutting my hair was just a way of marking a fresh start in my life. I had intended to be natural for one year then relax after retaining some length. I used to just wash and go with shampoo - no conditioner, no good hair care practices whatsoever. My hair got to a length where detangling was a very painful process. So I started researching for the 'magic product' to melt away my tangles then I came across many natural haired ladies on youtube and many forums. I then made a decision to stay natural. It took me till 2009 to start working on a healthy hair journey.
Deep conditioning saved my hair! I made most of my deep conditioners, avocado deep conditioner, honey and coconut oil were my staples (avocado one week and honey the other). I also experimented with henna during this period. Then I decided to do twists for a year - id keep a set for two months at a time. I retained some length but my hairline suffered. When I stopped twisting (with extensions) i also stopped using home made deep conditioners, and just bought some because I didnt have as much time to play with my hair.
After a while my hair started breaking and it has been that way for a while now. I got to almost bra strap and now I am back to SL. It occured to me that I eliminated protein altogether from my regimen. I bought aphogee 2min reconstructor and the two step protein treatment and used it once. Its only now that I am making the connection between lack of protein and hair breakage. As for my ends I started using MN (MN + Mega tek + beemine sulfur serum) and its working well I think.
Now I need help in building a regimen that will help maintain moisture - protein balance. Last week I did the aphogee two step protein treatment then I DC'd with Joico Moisture Recovery Balm (my hair loves this) then did a tea rinse which i rinsed out after a few minutes. Next week (I hope to DC every week) I am hoping to do the AE Garlic mask for a DC. I am not too sure what to do afterwards.
In my bathroom I also have:
DC
Aubrey Organics GBP Conditioner, Aphogee 2min reconstructor, Joico Moisture Recovery Balm, AE Garlic Mask, Elasta QP DPR-11.
Conditioners
Innecto, Tresemme Naturals (white and green one for moisture), Louise Galvin natural locks conditioner, mega tek, mane and tail
Leave - in
I use Kimmaytube's recipe but at the moment I am using Giovanni instead of Knot today
Moisturisers/butters
Shea butter (i mixed it with some oils cant remember which), Elasta QP mango butter, infusium 23
Oils
assortment of oils and essential oils
Phew seems like i have a product junky's bathroom
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I know different people have different 'equilibria' for moisture protein balance and I know there is no one fits all formula. But could you help me find what mine is based on the products that I have? I would greatly appreciate it. I am fed up of constant set backs! (I keep my hair in twists that last me a week, take them down, wash and dc then re-twist).
Sorry for a long message but I didnt want to leave out what could turn out to be important information.
I would greatly appreciate your help!