This is a spin off that came to mind after I read that girl's thread about her boyfriend talking about women and she overheard (and then she left and never responded to the thread - lol!)
Don't blast me, like some of you blasted her! This is real.
How would you feel if your female friends were going on and on about some guy on TV...in front of you and your husband AND EXPECTED YOU to agree in front of your man.
I have had this happen several times.
Scenario: A girl I know (but am not best friends with) was sitting on the couch at a little cookout. We were at a couple's house that have been married going over 20 years. Everyone was 25-30 and up with a few kids running around.
So one girl, who happens to be attractive, overweight and single, is watching the game with us and she's going on and on about how sexy some player is. I mean it was excessive!
So I'm cuddled up with DH on the couch and just ignoring her chatter and she is just moaning and groaning over these ball players... on TV.
She turns to ME and says:Isn't so and so super fine, like isn't he just sooo...yummy?
You know what I did? I turned to her and said, "Girl please I'm not looking at that man, when I got a good man right here! What are you drinking?"
She looked really pissed, like I played her. Mind you we are not close friends, just acquaintances and even if we were...well no, we wouldn't be.
I was surprised that she expected me to cosign with her comments. Um, no chick.
But has this happened to you and how have you handled it?
Don't blast me, like some of you blasted her! This is real.
How would you feel if your female friends were going on and on about some guy on TV...in front of you and your husband AND EXPECTED YOU to agree in front of your man.
I have had this happen several times.
Scenario: A girl I know (but am not best friends with) was sitting on the couch at a little cookout. We were at a couple's house that have been married going over 20 years. Everyone was 25-30 and up with a few kids running around.
So one girl, who happens to be attractive, overweight and single, is watching the game with us and she's going on and on about how sexy some player is. I mean it was excessive!
So I'm cuddled up with DH on the couch and just ignoring her chatter and she is just moaning and groaning over these ball players... on TV.
She turns to ME and says:Isn't so and so super fine, like isn't he just sooo...yummy?
You know what I did? I turned to her and said, "Girl please I'm not looking at that man, when I got a good man right here! What are you drinking?"
She looked really pissed, like I played her. Mind you we are not close friends, just acquaintances and even if we were...well no, we wouldn't be.
I was surprised that she expected me to cosign with her comments. Um, no chick.
But has this happened to you and how have you handled it?
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