no, i'm not! he shouldnt have female "friends" but thats life and it is what it is but i dont trust women in the sense of them being around my man and smiling in my face. they're too sneaky. like, they'll smile in your face and then be f-ing your man. no no no!! i dont even want to meet them. i prefer to know of them and about them but mixing and mingling, i'm not for it
thanks for your answers ladies.
My SO has female acquaintances who he speak to every once in a while. HOWEVER, there's this one girl who imo has no respect for our relationship. She calls him at least 5 days a week. Usually, she calls the SO with some "problem" she's having. For example, one night she calls him drunk begging for him to "come and get her" he simply told her "I'm not your bf and I'm with my gf so I can't help you". She threw a hissy fit, and sent my SO a text saying "no one loves her". He recently told her that now that he's in a relationship it's a bit inappropriate that she calls so often. Now he claims she calls about 2 times a week.
The situation doesn't sit right with me at all. I've addressed it with my SO but at the same time I'm annoyed that he picks up and/or returns her phone calls. She's the same "friend" who told him she "uncomfortable that he has a girlfriend now". To make matters worse my SO admitted that about 4 yrs. ago said chick use to be his jump-off.
I'm not sure how I should go about this.
Seems to me like she's not over your SO, there is still some residual feelings there. Also, sounds like she's very disrespectful and jealous of the time that he's spending with you. She's calling and he's responding to her calls 5x a week!!!! Why??? I'd find out what's really going on, how long have you been in the relationship with your SO?
It's a very new relationship, we've only been officially together for 4 months
Since it's fairly new, then it's hard to break off with old friendships even with the opposite sex. My husband and I both had friends of the opposite sex in the beginning stages of our relationship, but once we were serious and it was official that we were going to get married, it toned down and eventually stopped.