ClassicBeauty
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While reading the thread about Usher having a baby on the way I noticed the comment from MzLady78 and others saying that "a man will settled down with whoever happens to be in his life when he decides he's ready."
I've always heard this, but never really believed it until now. I happen to have an old college guy who's been talking so serious to me. Now that I'm happy in another relationship, he wants us to be together, me to move to where he lives, and us to get married, etc. I'm like ! He talks about our future children and our wonderful life that I am messing up by not following along. I wanted to hear all these things years ago, but he never even wanted to really commit in a relationship. He was my Mr. Big from SATC. The girls that he has been involved with have generally been the bimbo types, and I've always been the substance in his life.
Anyway, my girls seem to think that he's ready and when men get ready, they're ready. I'm not really feeling him now because we've been friends for almost 10 years and I know too much about him to really trust him, but I have to tell you ladies that I've never heard him talk like this. I've never known of him talking like this to anyone. It's like he just woke up this spring and wanted to settle down.
Anyway, have you ladies experienced this. Is it true that generally women fall in love and want to get married, but men get ready to get married and then find the girl or just take whoever is in their lives at the time?
I've always heard this, but never really believed it until now. I happen to have an old college guy who's been talking so serious to me. Now that I'm happy in another relationship, he wants us to be together, me to move to where he lives, and us to get married, etc. I'm like ! He talks about our future children and our wonderful life that I am messing up by not following along. I wanted to hear all these things years ago, but he never even wanted to really commit in a relationship. He was my Mr. Big from SATC. The girls that he has been involved with have generally been the bimbo types, and I've always been the substance in his life.
Anyway, my girls seem to think that he's ready and when men get ready, they're ready. I'm not really feeling him now because we've been friends for almost 10 years and I know too much about him to really trust him, but I have to tell you ladies that I've never heard him talk like this. I've never known of him talking like this to anyone. It's like he just woke up this spring and wanted to settle down.
Anyway, have you ladies experienced this. Is it true that generally women fall in love and want to get married, but men get ready to get married and then find the girl or just take whoever is in their lives at the time?