Solvedating.com & Triangle theory of love

[fluffylocks]

These are both kind of interesting to me...Just wanted to share.


http://www.solvedating.com/soulmatemintro.html

http://studiesoflove.com/loveromance/trianglelove.html


This is some of the first one
Rules of Attraction

There are four ways to be attractive. First, you have the qualities to fulfill the needs of others. Second, you show confidence that you are able to fulfill the needs of others. Third, if you lower the love costs of others, you could become more attractive. Finally, you will be attractive if you are able to recognize or create situations that make you more attractive. Mathematically, attractiveness is written as:


ETA- This is a interesting website too, its all about emotions

http://www.emotionalcompetency.com/concepts.htm

attractiveness=qualities to fulfill needs of others +
confidence to fulfill needs of others +
lowering love costs of others +
situation forces

1. Qualities to Fulfill the Needs of Others
   • Physical Attractiveness - sexual arousal, strength, and size
   • Similarities - attitudes, goals, background, interests, intelligences, sex drives, etc…
   • Social Skills - social etiquette, good hygiene, communication skills, social networking skills
   • Emotional Intelligence - self-awareness, managing emotions, empathy, managing emotions in others
   • Entertainment - humor, talents, novelty/mystery
   • Wealth
2. Confidence to Fulfill Needs of Others
3. Lowering the Love Costs of Others
   • Proximity
   • Meeting Frequency
   • Reciprocal Liking
4. Situational Forces
   • Mood
   • Arousal

Second one

 

[MixedBerry]

<makes the Chester Cheetah sound upon seeing all the overwhelming info regarding finding love in the first post> Good grief!

 

[natural_one]

uh..This is a suggestion from the website.

Resort to plastic surgery. Get yourself a nose job or new breasts (for women only).


More advice to make your love interest unattractive to other people.

Tactics to Decrease Physical Attractiveness of Love Interest
Cook high fat meals and discourage exercising.
Induce stress to cause acne.
Tell female love interest that she looks better without cosmetics.
Buy love interest clothes that are out of fashion.

 

[princessnad]

^^ Forreal?

 

[PeaceFlow]

uh..This is a suggestion from the website.

Resort to plastic surgery. Get yourself a nose job or new breasts (for women only).


More advice to make your love interest unattractive to other people.

Tactics to Decrease Physical Attractiveness of Love Interest
Cook high fat meals and discourage exercising.
Induce stress to cause acne.
Tell female love interest that she looks better without cosmetics.
Buy love interest clothes that are out of fashion.

I know women that do this.

 

[Raine054]

Is this for real?

 

[fluffylocks]

uh..This is a suggestion from the website.

Resort to plastic surgery. Get yourself a nose job or new breasts (for women only).


More advice to make your love interest unattractive to other people.

Tactics to Decrease Physical Attractiveness of Love Interest
Cook high fat meals and discourage exercising.
Induce stress to cause acne.
Tell female love interest that she looks better without cosmetics.
Buy love interest clothes that are out of fashion.

I think there is a disclaimer somewhere on there that says they tried to put humor in it LOL

Either way IMO everything in there is basically about life and common sence- Like taking care of your appearence, your social life, your money/career...which does have an impact on the people that you attract for some people who dont know.

I do believe the Triangle Theory of Love is accurate.