PrissiSippi
Simply Komplex
Me and my SO had our first argument. It wasn't super bad, but he really hurt my feelings.
I just wanted to show him that I was really really hurt and felt unappreciated. And if he kept it up, I'm gone. Well he apologized twice but that did nothing for me...I started getting upset and when I get upset I started throwing sarcastic remarks at him here and there.
He apologized again and then told me he understood where I was coming from and he sees how our arguments will be from now on. I don't say things that upset me until they pile up on each other and then we argue about a plethora of stuff. He also told me I was going on and on so he would talk to me later when I was more calm. I told him I was calm now but I just wanted to let him now he really hurt me. He said no I will talk to you a little later and got off the phone. He called about 2 hours later and then came to visit me.
I didn't want him to see me sweat so I was nice and cordial when he came over. I didn't bring up the argument or anything since we were around family and we just watched movies and talked with fam.
BUT Is the argument supposed to be over? I'm still pissed. What's now? I'm not supposed to bring it back up unless the problem comes up again? What's next? I really care for him and I'm trying to do the right things in this relationship. I'm trying to be more open minded and think logically. I don't want to be labeled as a nagger. So what to do?
I just wanted to show him that I was really really hurt and felt unappreciated. And if he kept it up, I'm gone. Well he apologized twice but that did nothing for me...I started getting upset and when I get upset I started throwing sarcastic remarks at him here and there.
He apologized again and then told me he understood where I was coming from and he sees how our arguments will be from now on. I don't say things that upset me until they pile up on each other and then we argue about a plethora of stuff. He also told me I was going on and on so he would talk to me later when I was more calm. I told him I was calm now but I just wanted to let him now he really hurt me. He said no I will talk to you a little later and got off the phone. He called about 2 hours later and then came to visit me.
I didn't want him to see me sweat so I was nice and cordial when he came over. I didn't bring up the argument or anything since we were around family and we just watched movies and talked with fam.
BUT Is the argument supposed to be over? I'm still pissed. What's now? I'm not supposed to bring it back up unless the problem comes up again? What's next? I really care for him and I'm trying to do the right things in this relationship. I'm trying to be more open minded and think logically. I don't want to be labeled as a nagger. So what to do?