Well, some of you probably remember me posting a thread (http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=248845) about my boyfriend/the roommate situation. We never went on break (I talked it over with him and we thought there was a better solution; mainly, he told me he only wanted to live with other people because I was going to move out to live in dorms, so I told him I wouldn't move out.), but now we're broken up. I left him because he just didn't seem to want to put any effort into saving the relationship.
What happened was; we decided on living together alone, he told his best friend etc. Then his best friend called him and said he'd been searching around, and offered him a deal on a bigger and cheaper place, and he took it. I explained to him that it was unfair to me to have to move to another state in order to be with him, but not live with him once we got there.
I don't understand why, after four years, he would just let things end like this. It's mind-baffling to me. I would think that we could try to work things out or come to an understanding, but he wasn't open to compromise. I just don't understand why... I thought we had more than that.
I'm writing here because I just don't understand, and he's not speaking to me so I guess I'll never have my answers. When I did talk to him about it, he would only mention that not moving in with his friend would entail him being a dick to his friend. He didn't seem to care about how all this made me feel... I just don't understand why he'd act that way after four years.
What happened was; we decided on living together alone, he told his best friend etc. Then his best friend called him and said he'd been searching around, and offered him a deal on a bigger and cheaper place, and he took it. I explained to him that it was unfair to me to have to move to another state in order to be with him, but not live with him once we got there.
I don't understand why, after four years, he would just let things end like this. It's mind-baffling to me. I would think that we could try to work things out or come to an understanding, but he wasn't open to compromise. I just don't understand why... I thought we had more than that.
I'm writing here because I just don't understand, and he's not speaking to me so I guess I'll never have my answers. When I did talk to him about it, he would only mention that not moving in with his friend would entail him being a dick to his friend. He didn't seem to care about how all this made me feel... I just don't understand why he'd act that way after four years.
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