So i was thinking of getting his name..

lcherilu said:
well we have been together since i was 14 and i will be 19 in december so i guess i felt it was right. But i do understand the point that i will not be the same person in 5 years and who knows what the future may bring. yea im going to give this so more thought. ive been asking alot of people and most of my replies are no. i still want to get a tattoo but probably not his name anymore...
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:happydance: at the bold. I just saw this post and it made me smile. I love to see people think through things, be open minded to other views, and still make the best decision for them. Keep me updated on what you do okay. ;)
 
prettyfaceANB said:
My best friend got a guy she was in love with tatooed on her wraist. She has no idea where he is now and that was years ago. Now she has two kids, a boyfriend, and some dude named Gerard on her arm.

If he is saying NO then he may not forever in mind for you yet.
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AHAHAHAAAAAAA!!!!!tHAT IS HILARIOUS!!!
I bet it makes for an awkward moment when introducing her boyfriend to people huh?
 
This sounds fake. Anyway, if you really want to know what to do, research Pam Anderson, Tommy Lee, Angelina Jolie, Billy Bob Thorton, Brandy (I think) and a few others. Tatooes are silly. If you want to show you love someone, marry him/her and stay committed.
 
Tee said:
:happydance: at the bold. I just saw this post and it made me smile. I love to see people think through things, be open minded to other views, and still make the best decision for them. Keep me updated on what you do okay. ;)
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will do! thnx soooo much
 
Don't do it.

If you want to feel like you belong to him or he owns you, you can get some cute little customized panties with his name embroidered on them. I'll go look for the link and come post it.

No tattoos.

get a promise ring, that weird irish ring people like a cla-something-or-the-other, a charm bracelet, henna...

NO TATTOOS of anybody. period.
 
I know I'm kinda late to this thread, but please don't do it!!!! My brother did the same thing...puppy love. Had to get the tatt covered up less than a year later.

A friend from college did the same thing, except the man was her husband. Had his last name tattooed on her. He cheated. They are divorced. She has a new SO.

It really isn't worth it. If you must get a tattoo...maybe a symbol or something that reminds you of him, but wont look crazy if you guys break up.

I just read your update....glad to hear that you changed your mind!!!!!
 
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SweetNic_JA said:
This sounds fake. Anyway, if you really want to know what to do, research Pam Anderson, Tommy Lee, Angelina Jolie, Billy Bob Thorton, Brandy (I think) and a few others. Tatooes are silly. If you want to show you love someone, marry him/her and stay committed.
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I agree. I would maybe consider it if I was married. I don't even have my kid's name on me.
 
NO. Never get a tattoo with a mans name. You have to think about whether or not the relationship will last. If it doesn’t do you want that on you body. Besides, I think tattoo’s are tacky and ruin an already beautiful body. Women have make-up; we don’t need to waste time with tattoos … lol!

I don’t even like them on men, especially if they’re all over the place: arms, neck …etc. I think it looks “hick-ish”. Someone wanted to get my name tattooed on him. I advised against it heavily. I just think it’s ugly. There are plenty of other things to adorn our bodies with without resorting to tattoos.
 
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BroadstreetBully said:
:nono:

You have some growing up to do. I mean this in the sweetest way possible. It's puppy love with no ring or life long commitment. He said no because he's being realistic that this might not last forever. Permanent ink and he hasn't given you his last name?
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AND, he doesn't even WANT his first name ON her. Listen OP! LISTEN! You aren't paying attention to the man. He doesn't want his name permanently on your body. At least respect that if you're not going to respect yourself.
 
NOOOO, not unless it's a Henna tat.

BUT, Since you are so in love, just ask him to buy you a nice ring. ..........OR more seriously why don't ya'll get matching rings and wear them on the wedding band finger.
This ring should be more expensive than a simple Primise Ring, and no matter what happens with ya'lls relationship, you'll always have a nice piece of quality jewelery, not a tat that you'll have to explain 50-11 times as you go through life.

What happend to the days when the GUY would give something up when he loved a girl (ring, jacket, etc)?
Nowadays its the women giving stuff in the name of Love. (tats, coochie, babbies).

I'm not telling you to "golddig" but just pointing out that (to me) the giveaways don't seem no way equal.
 
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vivmaiko said:
Don't do it.

If you want to feel like you belong to him or he owns you, you can get some cute little customized panties with his name embroidered on them. I'll go look for the link and come post it.
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So um.....did you ever find that link? :look:
 
lcherilu said:
My sister's has her baby daddies name tatooed on her and there happy together. I guess its sibling influence. We've been goin through it lately anyways..So i think maybe i will just wait and see what happens. But thank you ladies!
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If they're so happy why hasn't he put a ring on it?

I'm thinking your sister isn't a good influence. Don't do anything she does.
 
Keen said:
Will you be spending the rest of your life with this guy? I'm not asking do you want to? I'm asking will you? Has he proposed? Wedding date set? If not, what will you do after yall break up?
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Not even then! I had all that and a ring and HE went first. It was his idea. We have the perfect cliche' coverups now. I hear he has a nice tribal band around his arm and I have the panther I always wanted on my stomach :lachen:
 
LHM. my best friend told her boyfirend she was gonna get his name tatted on her. he said no but she did it anyway. they broke up less than a month later and they had been together for 3 years at the time.
 
Im sorry.
I know this thread is a little old, but everytime I see it as Im scrolling down in the relationship forum...I shake my head.
Does anyone else do this?
 
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