So i was thinking of getting his name..

lcherilu said:
Lol. Everybody tells me i shouldn't but I'm so in love with him...Maybe its puppy love since im so young but i feel its right. He actually doesn't want me to get it at all.
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Then why are you doing it? You DO know it's the death knell for a relationship right? I don't know anyone who has done this with a relationship that has survived. And, if he doesn't want you to do it then why are you forcing it? Why do YOU really feel it's right? We need to be more careful ladies! Good D*ck does not always equal "SOULMATE/ONETRUELOVE/MARRIAGELIFEPARTNER"! Please reconsider. I'm happy you are happy but DON'T DO IT! Especially because you are young. You will not be the same woman five years from now....I guarantee you that.
 
The ladies have advised you correctly, Don't do it. You don't want a constant reminder of this person if your relationship does not last and I assure you the men you date after him will not appreciate it either. Also, laser surgery costs thousands of dollars and sometimes your skin will look odd in that location after removal.
 
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You have some growing up to do. I mean this in the sweetest way possible. It's puppy love with no ring or life long commitment. He said no because he's being realistic that this might not last forever. Permanent ink and he hasn't given you his last name?
 
My best friend got a guy she was in love with tatooed on her wraist. She has no idea where he is now and that was years ago. Now she has two kids, a boyfriend, and some dude named Gerard on her arm.

If he is saying NO then he may not forever in mind for you yet.
 
so first ull get it on ur belly, than he gets you pregnant, then it stretches out, then yall break up, then u have a warped name on ur cute belly lol
thats the scenario that came to my mind
get his initials on ur hip or something really tiny then u can cover it easily
 
I really hope this is just a joke.

If not, I think this would be tacky, cheap and dare I say very hoodrat-like. If you embody all of those things already, by all means go ahead :look:. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt though and presume you're not. A tattoo doesn't prove how much you love someone, even if you're already married. The fact that you need advice from anonymous people says you're not in the least bit ready to get a permanent tattoo. I say this as a person with a tattoo already, so I'm not anti-tattoos. I am anti-your current partner's name permanently on your body.

With that said, if you're going to proceed don't do it below your belly button :perplexed. That's not a good place for anyone, imo.
 
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Three Words: "Don't Do IT!"

I've been married to my husband almost 14 years and I plan to be married to him until God takes us out of here, but neither of us will be getting not n'are a letter of the other's name tattooed on our bodies. Love and commitment are actions that you live out on a daily basis.
 
tocktick said:
I really hope this is just a joke though.

If not, I think this would be tacky, cheap and dare I say very hoodrat-like. If you embody all of those things already, by all means go ahead :look:. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt though and presume you're not. A tattoo doesn't prove how much you love someone, even if you're already married. The fact that you need advice from anonymous people says you're not in the least bit ready to get a permanent tattoo. I say this as a person with a tattoo already, so I'm not anti-tattoos. I am anti-your current partner's name permanently on your body.

With that said, if you're going to proceed don't do it below your belly button :perplexed. That's not a good place for anyone, imo.
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No laughing at you OP but that part had me rollin:lachen::lachen:

Okay, seriously! I say don't do it ESPECIALLY if HE'S telling you don't do it also:ohwell:
 
If you aren't married, I wouldn't do it.

I'm not anti-name tattoos, at all - DH & I plan on getting each others names tatted on ourselves sometime soon - I designed them, and while they ARE our names, they are in a 'unique' font, and are not straight lines - so it looks like a tribal/abstract tattoo of some sort. Because we KNOW what the design is, when we look at them, we can clearly see each others names, but when other people look at them, all they see is a pretty swirly pattern.
If, gods forbid, we break up/one of us dies - I would have no problem with other folks seeing his tattoo, and would be proud to carry his name on me - but I doubt that I would TELL many people that it was his name. ;)

But again, we're married. Have been for over 5 years. And we love tattoos - I have one, he has two, already.
 
I'd say don't do it - especially since he's told you not to and because you're not married.

I too know someone who had to have hers turned into a rose or some other image because they broke up.

When you're (happily) married, then do it.
 
lcherilu said:
Lol. Everybody tells me i shouldn't but I'm so in love with him...Maybe its puppy love since im so young but i feel its right. He actually doesn't want me to get it at all.
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That's your answer right there. Not sure how old you are but you never know who you'll end up with in the future should things not go as planned. It's your body though but you'll end up regretting it eventually.
 
Kerryann said:
no offense im thinking you bugging dontt ever take god out of your thoughts and do that young lady
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can we stop calling people young lady on LHCF? geez i get that some of yall are over 40 but geez I think we all have or had a momma at one point LOL
I mean aren't we all young ladies? or are some of you... dare I say... OLD ladies? lol
dont get mad but really I'm sure she really just wanted to see what everyone would say about the dern tattoo not be patronized LOL
 
music-bnatural-smile said:
can we stop calling people young lady on LHCF? geez i get that some of yall are over 40 but geez I think we all have or had a momma at one point LOL
I mean aren't we all young ladies? or are some of you... dare I say... OLD ladies? lol
dont get mad but really I'm sure she really just wanted to see what everyone would say about the dern tattoo not be patronized LOL
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ITA with the ^^^^ !!! Even though I personally would not do this... In the end its up to you your grown do what you want and what makes you happy...:look:
 
well we have been together since i was 14 and i will be 19 in december so i guess i felt it was right. But i do understand the point that i will not be the same person in 5 years and who knows what the future may bring. yea im going to give this so more thought. ive been asking alot of people and most of my replies are no. i still want to get a tattoo but probably not his name anymore...
 
music-bnatural-smile said:
so first ull get it on ur belly, than he gets you pregnant, then it stretches out, then yall break up, then u have a warped name on ur cute belly lol
thats the scenario that came to my mind
get his initials on ur hip or something really tiny then u can cover it easily
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i was thinking the same exact thing!
 
lcherilu said:
Lol. Everybody tells me i shouldn't but I'm so in love with him...Maybe its puppy love since im so young but i feel its right. He actually doesn't want me to get it at all.
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The bold alone speaks volume! Don't do it missy.
 
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