So i was thinking of getting his name..

i dont believe in that but my new "friend", "fiance" whatever he wants to be called wants us to get each other's name tattooed on our body...i think i kinda convinced him not to want to get that tattooed lol
 
Lol. Everybody tells me i shouldn't but I'm so in love with him...Maybe its puppy love since im so young but i feel its right. He actually doesn't want me to get it at all.
 
listen to him and not get it, if it meant for you to get his name then it will get done. but he aint even pressin you to get his name.

you can be in love w/o his name on yo body
 
I woulnd not do it.

My husband mentioned getting a new tatoo. I told him if he got my named tatooed all across his back and around his stomach....like my first name on his stomach (covering the whole stomach and my middle name on his back) I would get a little 1/4" tatoo of his name.

But I know I would never get a tatoo. I'm really not a tatoo person.
 
My sister's has her baby daddies name tatooed on her and there happy together. I guess its sibling influence. We've been goin through it lately anyways..So i think maybe i will just wait and see what happens. But thank you ladies!
 
lcherilu said:
Lol. Everybody tells me i shouldn't but I'm so in love with him...Maybe its puppy love since im so young but i feel its right. He actually doesn't want me to get it at all.
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If you think its right then by all means go ahead and get it, after all you are an adult. My brother is "dating" a ...... that has 3 different guys name on her body, 1 on her chest, 1 on her upper back and 1 as a tramp stamp. NOW he has a problem with it since they are "serious." Laser is an option to remove it, but give it some more time before you take the plunge.
 
flavia said:
If you think its right then by all means go ahead and get it, after all you are an adult. My brother is "dating" a ...... that has 3 different guys name on her body, 1 on her chest, 1 on her upper back and 1 as a tramp stamp. NOW he has a problem with it since they are "serious." Laser is an option to remove it, but give it some more time before you take the plunge.
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How much is laser?
 
What about getting a cute matching tattoo (no names)?...something that both of you can sport (gender neutral)...he can get a nice size one on his arm, chest, or back and you can get a cute smaller one wherever you like.
 
guudhair said:
What about getting a cute matching tattoo (no names)?...something that both of you can sport (gender neutral)...he can get a nice size one on his arm, chest, or back and you can get a cute smaller one wherever you like.
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that is what my friend did with her husband
 
lcherilu said:
My sister's has her baby daddies name tatooed on her and there happy together. I guess its sibling influence. We've been goin through it lately anyways..So i think maybe i will just wait and see what happens. But thank you ladies!
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Yes, please wait. I've been married 22 years and I'm still like nah I don't think so lol. Don't do it!!!!

lcherilu said:
Lol gosh we've have no supporters of name tatoos....:lachen:
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dachsies_rule! said:
Before you decide, please read the current blog by nakialovesshoes: Tattoo Regret-Laser Removal UPDATE
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I was thinking the same thing...
 
A big no especially if he is saying don't get it. If a man is not willing to get a matching name tattoo go along with it...my guess is it's a BAAAAD idea (even then I wouldn't).
 
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wow..mayb i havent thought about this...22 years! wow cograts hopeful! i like the matching tattoos idea as well. my other suggestion was like the date we started goin out instead of the name just in case or it might b something to remember him by if we do end up not being together (god forbid!)
 
lcherilu said:
wow..mayb i havent thought about this...22 years! wow cograts hopeful! i like the matching tattoos idea as well. my other suggestion was like the date we started goin out instead of the name just in case or it might b something to remember him by if we do end up not being together (god forbid!)
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why do u need to get something permanent on your body to remember him by, ESPECIALLY if y'all are no longer together...you dont need to commemorate every relationship on your body, take a pic together and call it a day.
 
I understand your grown and can make your own decisions but since you asked for our input, I would advise you to not get the tattoo. Maybe something that symbolizes your love for him but not his name. Your sister and her SO are another story and they're not you.
 
Why don't you get a nice initials or heart pendant made and just wear that. You don't have to take it off if things go well but in the event that they don't..........
 
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Will you be spending the rest of your life with this guy? I'm not asking do you want to? I'm asking will you? Has he proposed? Wedding date set? If not, what will you do after yall break up?
 
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