Impresaria
I'm your huckleberry.
It has been on my heart to tell my children that Dad and I are divorcing. This morning, I told my oldest sons, who are 14 and 13. My heart was beating and I was nervous, but the obvious couldn't be denied and I know that my boys are not fools. So I told them. I'm not going to go into detail about what I said, it was what they told me a few hours ago that took the cake.
I guess they had all day to think about it, but they wanted to ride to the grocery store with me and that's when they told me about their Dad's "friend". This woman has been in my home, she has combed my daughter's hair, she has gone with my husband and children to the mall, all while I was in Iraq. I don't know this woman from Jack, but I know her voice, because it was her messages that were on his cell phone that started this whole chain of events. I have never met her in my life, and she is certainly not any friend of our family, nor a friend of mine.
My son's told me how sometimes they would get up in the morning to go to school and their Dad wouldn't EVEN BE HOME. He'd leave when they were sleeping. This explains the 20 or more absences that they had from school. He'd show up well in the afternoon with his "friend". The thing that alerted them that something was very wrong with this "friendship" is when she came over, and after being here for a few minutes, my husband sent all of the children to the park...while he and "friend" stayed back at my house. When they came back home, the doors were locked. UNBELIEVABLE!! There is more to it, but this is the most important part--my children have been holding this in for months. While I was gone, their grades dropped significantly and they just seemed like they wanted to tell me something whenever I would call. They told me this evening that they didn't want to say anything until they knew what was going on with me and Dad, because they didn't want to "influence" my decision.
Can you believe this? Children--poor babies, walking around with this burden, and having to suck it up and deal with it. And my soon-to-be-ex deserves a special place in Hades. I really don't care anymore all that much about what he has done to me. Well, I care, but it has only been meditation and constant prayer that has kept me from seriously going the **** off. But see, now, he has ****ed with my children. And that has me madder than anything. Here I was the whole time thinking of how I was going to tell them, and it turns out that they were right in the thick of things as they were happening. This really saddens me tonight. Things like this are unforgivable. There are some marriages that just HAVE TO END. And mine is a prime example of what happens when a man loses his GOT DAMN mind and any sense of decency. I knew that he was sleeping with her, but I had no idea that she was in my home on in my childrens' lives. What kind of man is this?
Hmmmmmphhhhh......
I guess they had all day to think about it, but they wanted to ride to the grocery store with me and that's when they told me about their Dad's "friend". This woman has been in my home, she has combed my daughter's hair, she has gone with my husband and children to the mall, all while I was in Iraq. I don't know this woman from Jack, but I know her voice, because it was her messages that were on his cell phone that started this whole chain of events. I have never met her in my life, and she is certainly not any friend of our family, nor a friend of mine.
My son's told me how sometimes they would get up in the morning to go to school and their Dad wouldn't EVEN BE HOME. He'd leave when they were sleeping. This explains the 20 or more absences that they had from school. He'd show up well in the afternoon with his "friend". The thing that alerted them that something was very wrong with this "friendship" is when she came over, and after being here for a few minutes, my husband sent all of the children to the park...while he and "friend" stayed back at my house. When they came back home, the doors were locked. UNBELIEVABLE!! There is more to it, but this is the most important part--my children have been holding this in for months. While I was gone, their grades dropped significantly and they just seemed like they wanted to tell me something whenever I would call. They told me this evening that they didn't want to say anything until they knew what was going on with me and Dad, because they didn't want to "influence" my decision.
Can you believe this? Children--poor babies, walking around with this burden, and having to suck it up and deal with it. And my soon-to-be-ex deserves a special place in Hades. I really don't care anymore all that much about what he has done to me. Well, I care, but it has only been meditation and constant prayer that has kept me from seriously going the **** off. But see, now, he has ****ed with my children. And that has me madder than anything. Here I was the whole time thinking of how I was going to tell them, and it turns out that they were right in the thick of things as they were happening. This really saddens me tonight. Things like this are unforgivable. There are some marriages that just HAVE TO END. And mine is a prime example of what happens when a man loses his GOT DAMN mind and any sense of decency. I knew that he was sleeping with her, but I had no idea that she was in my home on in my childrens' lives. What kind of man is this?
Hmmmmmphhhhh......
. I wonder did he stop to think how his action affect the emotional and mental well-being 
for you and your children.
as I read this. To think that they had to go thru holding that in.....whew. We "adults" sure know how to mess them up. Will be praying for you and your precious children 
