jennifer30
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I am still longing for beautiful apl hair
Give it time! It will take me two years to reach APL if I don't do anything drastic. Just learn your hair, keep your products simple, and enjoy the process.I am still longing for beautiful apl hair
I see a difference! Start wearing it curly. Like just put some flexi Rods to give you some soft curls. No wet set.I'm never going to make SL. Whenever I get some growth I fell like my hair doesn't look neat so I clean it up and then I'm back where I started. I need someone to keep me from cutting my hair. My obsession with trimming and evening things up is getting out of hand. I just cut the mullet two weeks ago. Scissors were not supposed to touch my hair again until August.
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I know. I don't know what I would do without you guys...you are all so insightful and I just know nothing about hair. Thanks for all the advice and tipsGive it time! It will take me two years to reach APL if I don't do anything drastic. Just learn your hair, keep your products simple, and enjoy the process.
Anytime! Lol I still trying to figure out what to do with my hair! I'm going to wash it, but I don't have a clue on what to do next. It's gonna be extremely hot again soon.I know. I don't know what I would do without you guys...you are all so insightful and I just know nothing about hair. Thanks for all the advice and tips
Well at least u have something to work with..lolAnytime! Lol I still trying to figure out what to do with my hair! I'm going to wash it, but I don't have a clue on what to do next. It's gonna be extremely hot again soon.
I never thought of this. Usually if I put flexis in I comes out the same way as if I wet set it. But I think I know what to so this time. Right now my hair is in 2 braids. I'm going to take them out and put in only a few flexi rods and see what it gets me. I won't roll them too tight either because I'm going for a soft curl like you said. Fingers crossed.I see a difference! Start wearing it curly. Like just put some flexi Rods to give you some soft curls. No wet set.
But you know my hair was as short as yours last year. It would be longer if I would have stopped at the first haircut. But I enjoyed that cut! I played with color, and had it cut into a style! So I didn't really think about my hair until I started growing it out again.Well at least u have something to work with..lol
How many inches do you have now?But you know my hair was as short as yours last year. It would be longer if I would have stopped at the first haircut. But I enjoyed that cut! I played with color, and had it cut into a style! So I didn't really think about my hair until I started growing it out again.
Since I trimmed my hair, im down to 3 inches in the front, and 2 or so inches in the back. It was 4 and 3. And I stopped getting my hair cut last November.How many inches do you have now?
I need to straighten. Too hot though. If not, I need to detangle my hair daily in the shower.Been back in the gym and will probably be cowashing everyday. So far it's making me want to stop straightening for a while.
Why do you need to straighten? To keep your hair detangled?I need to straighten. Too hot though. If not, I need to detangle my hair daily in the shower.
Yep! I'm not in the mood for twists and coils. I finally got that dove conditioner to act right for my hair. I rinsed my hair, applied, detangled with my jumbo magic rake comb, styled it a little, and that's it. I'm just not feeling the in between stage, and it's gonna take 2 years to get out of it. Meaning being able to wear a bun, or a ponytail.Why do you need to straighten? To keep your hair detangled?
I'm feeling the opposite lately. I was just thinking about it this morning on the train. I may "accidentally" transition out of my heat trained hair. The only reason I started straightening was because I was style challenged and thought styling would be easier on straight hair. Plus the front of my hair loses the curl pattern as it gets longer. Funny that I learned styles to hide damage and problem spots when if I had learned how to do my hair to begin with I would have never had any problems.Yep! I'm not in the mood for twists and coils. I finally got that dove conditioner to act right for my hair. I rinsed my hair, applied, detangled with my jumbo magic rake comb, styled it a little, and that's it. I'm just not feeling the in between stage, and it's gonna take 2 years to get out of it. Meaning being able to wear a bun, or a ponytail.
If you do two strand twists, just rod the ends in the front to curl them. Just wash your hair and don't blow dry it! That's how the accident will happen.I'm feeling the opposite lately. I was just thinking about it this morning on the train. I may "accidentally" transition out of my heat trained hair. The only reason I started straightening was because I was style challenged and thought styling would be easier on straight hair. Plus the front of my hair loses the curl pattern as it gets longer. Funny that I learned styles to hide damage and problem spots when if I had learned how to do my hair to begin with I would have never had any problems.
Yup. I'm planning on doing bantu knots since I really liked the way they came out last time with my flexi rod set. So many different ways to keep my hair cute. Now if only my edges and nape will act right and let me be great.If you do two strand twists, just rod the ends in the front to curl them. Just wash your hair and don't blow dry it! That's how the accident will happen.
I may get some goody bands and more Aloe gel.
That's the gel. It doesn't give me a lot of hold, but it will not dry my hair completely out. Ecostyler will give me better results though.Yup. I'm planning on doing bantu knots since I really liked the way they came out last time with my flexi rod set. So many different ways to keep my hair cute. Now if only my edges and nape will act right and let me be great.
What kind of aloe gel do you use. I love fruit of the earth. That gel right there is just
Wow. I wish I could wear a puff now. This is going to be a long time lolI pulled my hair up in a puff, so I could have a neat, clean style. Well now I feel cute again, but I can't sleep like this. I like my edges! Lol
Enjoy your hair now! The in between stage is something else and you are there for a long time.Wow. I wish I could wear a puff now. This is going to be a long time lol
Yes it is a long time. :Yep:Enjoy your hair now! The in between stage is something else and you are there for a long time.
Will you take a pic of the bantu knots? Are you doing them on stretched hair? What products are you using?I'm in love with Bantu knot outs! My hair came out so cute. I got so many compliments and I wanted to take a pic this morning before I unraveled but I was running late. Next time because I'm definitely using this as an alternative to the rods.
I'm not supposed to do my hair again until tomorrow but I have a memorial service to attend so I'm doing them today. I will take a pic of the knots when I'm done and then when I unravel and then when I separate. It's good for me to see them too because if I ever mess up I can back to them.Will you take a pic of the bantu knots? Are you doing them on stretched hair? What products are you using?
That made my stomach hurt ....lolYes it is a long time. :Yep: