SL 2015

I had the opposite. When I started fingercombing I would get loads of hair until it finally tapered off.
Are you combing whilst wet or with conditioner? or dry when you notice the hair in the comb?
I just did it once yesterday damp with DC and shea. I last did it before I put my marley twists in so around 2 and a half months. There was just a whole load of long strands coming out.
Yes. Why I just stopped fingercombing. The ssk and knots (besides being super shrinky) from shed hair were atrocious. There were literally shed hairs wrapped around unshed hairs. I just comb now. Much better progress.
I'm thinking about stopping too. Its making stretching a lot harder hence my ssks are atrocious too. I may stick to 50/50 so once a week or so.
 
I just did it once yesterday damp with DC and shea. I last did it before I put my marley twists in so around 2 and a half months. There was just a whole load of long strands coming out.

I'm thinking about stopping too. Its making stretching a lot harder hence my ssks are atrocious too. I may stick to 50/50 so once a week or so.
I would think if you're seeing long hairs that sounds like shedding not breakage. Have you tried tea or coffee rinses to slow the shed factor?
 
Did a clay wash yesterday and did a water rinse tonight. Sealed with oil and a Shea butter blend. Doing a different flat twist style. Just a few more inches in the back and styling will be much easier.

Tried to do a puff yesterday but the back still is too short for it too look good. The front is much longer than the back.
 
Did a clay wash yesterday and did a water rinse tonight. Sealed with oil and a Shea butter blend. Doing a different flat twist style. Just a few more inches in the back and styling will be much easier.

Tried to do a puff yesterday but the back still is too short for it too look good. The front is much longer than the back.
This is me. Its why I've refrained from doing ___out styles for so long. I know the tapered look is in at the moment but on he it doesn't look right.
 
I thought you wanted to be a straight/heat trained (so I wouldn't think that would be problem). By flat ironing you run the risk of losing your curl pattern every time.

I did but it got expensive. Plus I am afraid stylists are using too much heat? I'm planning to straighten my hair tonight at home because it just looks better straight to me, but I don't want my hair to be gross and dry and potentially start breaking, like a chemical free demarcation line.

My hair is just sooooooo thick. It's surprising. I'm seven months post and I want to see my length but at the same time I hear that your hair does better sans heat, so I feel torn.
 
I did but it got expensive. I'm planning to straighten my hair tonight because it just looks better straight to me, but I don't want my hair to be gross and dry and potentially start breaking, like a chemical free demarcation line.
Have tried wearing your natural texture at all? Different techniques results in different looks. Try different products watch some YouTube videos. Are there any textured styles you like? There are several different options other than straightening.
 
Have tried wearing your natural texture at all? Different techniques results in different looks. Try different products watch some YouTube videos. Are there any textured styles you like? There are several different options other than straightening.

So, there are tons of textured styles I think are cute, but I feel like they require really long hair, otherwise it doesn't fit my face, which is fairly narrow. Stretched/straight are the most attractive styles to me. I just want natural CBL hair :( :( I feel like it's gonna take years. I have about three inches of hair straightened.
 
So, there are tons of textured styles I think are cute, but I feel like they require really long hair, otherwise it doesn't fit my face, which is fairly narrow. Stretched/straight are the most attractive styles to me. I just want natural CBL hair :( :( I feel like it's gonna take years. I have about three inches of hair straightened.
I had about that when I bc'd. I had never had short and didn't particularly care for short hair but I embraced because I choose to cut when I did. I did my research and decided I'm not sacrificing my future hair for how it looks now. I have a lot of shrinkage but I'm definitely SL and I've found beauty in the stage I'm in now. I've found a style I'm happy with and feel I can grow in it. Keep in mind that hair grows everyday and how you treat it now determines what it will be down the road. So if you're noticing damage on your ends now they will be just as damaged once it grows out and you'll have cut what progress you've made down the road and end up not retaining as much as you could've in the long run.
 
I thought you wanted to be a straight/heat trained (so I wouldn't think that would be problem). By flat ironing you run the risk of losing your curl pattern every time.

This is true @naija24, please use a protein or reconstructor before and after straightening your hair. I was on that straight train too, but in the end I realized my hair was being punished and had to do a mini big chop because of the ends having heat damage. Now, I do my own straightening, don't reuse heat after the initial blow and flat iron and my hair is doing well. Maybe keep braids in until it gets to a length you are more comfortable with...
 
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