Single ladies - are you competitive with your single girlfriends?

[Glib Gurl]

I posted this question in OT, but I've only gotten a handful of replies. All my single ladies - please chime in!

 

[Skyfall]

I'm not but one of my single friends tried to compete with me... I don't get it either everytime she did it I felt betrayed somehow cuz, we're friends and your really gonna try to fight me over some guy??? Eventually I stopped hanging out with her cuz she was just a bad friend overall. None of my good friends try to compete with me. The way we do it in our circle is if a guy shows interest in one of us even tho another one of us might have approached him first, we just step aside.

 

[gabulldawg]

I don't, and I don't understand why women do this.

 

[daydreem2876]

No... at least I am not. Then again, I can be seen as the oddball of the group and my taste in everything is so different from theirs.

 

[LivingDol1]

i don't feel like i compete with any of my friends. we tend to have different tastes in men.

but i do notice when one gets more attention than me when we're out. there are certain friends i won't go out to bars with because i will wind up being the bored girl on the side, or talking so some dude that i have absolutely not interest in just to pass the time. it's a waste of my time... but we don't go for the same guys!

 

[Nelli04]

no not really. My friends and I each have somewhat different taste in guys and attract different guys.

 

[laCriolla]

no and we don't date each other's leftovers (or do other things).
i dont understand how people do that.