LadyCee
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Ive been having this so called issue or dilemma for a lil while now and wanted to your thoughts on this ladies.
I met a guy through a family friend late last year and at first things really hit off well. He was nice and very into me I can say he basically pursued me and I liked the feeling because I was recently out of a relationship. I wasn't making it too apparent but at first I didn't care for it as much as I found my self later liking him. He lives a few hours away from me and is in a college town so I was a little hesitant abt that but didn't stress it bc we were just "hangin" out . when we were talking he asked me what I was looking for and I didn't want to be to forward and say I was looking for a relationship which I was bc he seemed like a good guy and so i said whatever happens happens im not necessarily looking for anything at the moment. so he basically gave the same answer. I sorta think that was a no no??
so he kept in touch when he went back home and I saw him as a pretty decent dude. well a little after he started to act different and stop calling/ texting as much and I guess I got a little puzzled. And everytime I would ask him abt his sudden disappereance he would say he was either busy or everyone tells him that he disappears for a while even his family. so I said okay sure and gave him the benefit of he doubt.
He has done this in several occasions and I haven't talked to him in weeks and just a few days ago he texted me if I'm still breathing and me being frustrated I don't repsond and the next day he texts me hey and I want to answer buy at the same time
I don't want to go through that again bc I obviously did and possibly still do like him.
I wanted to know how is textin and calling the same to men. I always taught calling wAs a better way of being mor personal and showing a person more interest rather than a text which context can be takin in the wrong way sometimes. what gives shud I respond or just forget it to not go through that hectic series of emotions again. it wud be so much simplier if he called rather than text but idk ?? am i wasting my time...i probably know the answer but the input is always helpful. thnxerplexed
I met a guy through a family friend late last year and at first things really hit off well. He was nice and very into me I can say he basically pursued me and I liked the feeling because I was recently out of a relationship. I wasn't making it too apparent but at first I didn't care for it as much as I found my self later liking him. He lives a few hours away from me and is in a college town so I was a little hesitant abt that but didn't stress it bc we were just "hangin" out . when we were talking he asked me what I was looking for and I didn't want to be to forward and say I was looking for a relationship which I was bc he seemed like a good guy and so i said whatever happens happens im not necessarily looking for anything at the moment. so he basically gave the same answer. I sorta think that was a no no??
so he kept in touch when he went back home and I saw him as a pretty decent dude. well a little after he started to act different and stop calling/ texting as much and I guess I got a little puzzled. And everytime I would ask him abt his sudden disappereance he would say he was either busy or everyone tells him that he disappears for a while even his family. so I said okay sure and gave him the benefit of he doubt.
He has done this in several occasions and I haven't talked to him in weeks and just a few days ago he texted me if I'm still breathing and me being frustrated I don't repsond and the next day he texts me hey and I want to answer buy at the same time
I don't want to go through that again bc I obviously did and possibly still do like him.
I wanted to know how is textin and calling the same to men. I always taught calling wAs a better way of being mor personal and showing a person more interest rather than a text which context can be takin in the wrong way sometimes. what gives shud I respond or just forget it to not go through that hectic series of emotions again. it wud be so much simplier if he called rather than text but idk ?? am i wasting my time...i probably know the answer but the input is always helpful. thnxerplexed