Zeeonthegrow - it's always lovely to discover you've made a little more progress than you thought and perhaps there is no need to have gotten dispondent? Keep going and you'll get there!
Is it too late to join :-(
OK- got my hair relaxed. It is so fine and thin right now that length seems to be the last thing I need to worry about. I'm definitely a little past CBL, only a little bit to go from SBL. (Yay for me, right?) BUT all that is for nothing if I look damn near bald at the top of my head! I'm doing some lurking right now in other threads and considering using MegaTek and buying Neosporin AF as part of a regimen to get try and get my hair a little thicker. Just when I thought I was close to a great goal--something throws a monkey wrench in my plans. Woa is me.
I hope I'm not too late to join! I only recently discovered the site and am now a believer! I've been relaxing and wearing weaves for years, and finally decided to take the weave out and learn how to take care of my relaxed hair. I think I was addicted to weaves, and although it's apparently a protective style, my hair would constantly break and thin out under the weave... Anyway I need lots and lots of help on this journey - don't have a clue how to take care of my hair.... I need serious help/suggestions on how to prevent breakage.
What is your current length?
Neck Length
What is your goal date to make SL?
December 2011
Relaxed/natural/texlaxed/transitioning?
Texlaxed, I think? I don't usually keep the relaxer on very long. Maybe someone could tell me from the picture if I'm relaxed or texlaxed?
How do you plan on getting to SL? (ie. Protective styling, no heat, stretching relaxers, growth aids, etc)
I'm trying to drink more water, and I've started taking vitamins - a Multivitamin + Biotin + Omega 3 + Calcuim&Magnesium + Vitamin D. I have also started Muay Thai (mixed martial arts/kickboxing) for overall health.
I'm gong to be deep conditioning weekly with Cholesterol Conditioner, and will condition and seal nightly: Ramoni leave-In conditioner and Proclaim Argon Oil as my sealer. I will also wrap my hair every night. I'm still learning about protective styles - I'm really trying to stay away from my weave addiction though. I work in a professional environment, so I'm hoping I'm not limited to buns everyday... plus my hair doesn't bun very well because it's shorter in the front. I'll be researching the site for ideas, but any suggestions/feedback is welcome!!!
Whats your long term length goal?
BSL if possible... I believe... I believe... I believe!!!!!
I first noticed the thinning a year ago immediately after a relaxer Dec '09. My hair seemed to be fine before that (yes, a little thin but as for as density it wasn't that noticeable). I just charged it to chemical damage (wasn't my first go-round w/ a bad relaxer) and swore off relaxers by wearing sew in weaves consistently until now. But NOW I'm thinking it may have been more than that...because after more than a year of no chemicals, co-washing, and moisturizing, I still see a significant amount of scalp. I'll post pics. I did change my diet last year around this time to no beef or pork, but it was about 4 months after I started the weave thing....and I increased my fish & seafood intake- do you think that could have done it? No more stress than usual. Lol. My nape and crown seem to be taking it the hardest, actually having spots where it has broken off, but it's also suprisingly sparse all around. I'm assuming it looks its worst since it is a fresh perm, but the difference from my normal density is still very noticeable. So basically, it looks like I have a lot of issues coming at me all at once. I just need to figure out the best way to tackle them all.
Wanted to wait for my curls to fall some more before I did length shots, but just in case I don't get around to it, I went ahead and took some.
the first 2 pics are from the day I got it done.