GetHappy2014
Well-Known Member
I have been dating this guy (single father of two) for about 3 months. Yes, we have done the deed. I tried to hold out longer until I got to know him better but the pressure was intense. Needless to say he has "player" running through his veins. I tried to stay away from his type...cause usually I do and I am usually successful. However, he said his player days are over, which can partly be attributed to the reason why he is now a single father. Girl (his ex) flipped the script. Okay so my dilemma is that we are dating... and just today I really pushed the topic of discussion...MONOGAMY. So far I feel that he has not strayed...probably cause things are still new. However, he just doesn't seem to interested in making that commitment of monogamy. So currently, I have the opportunity to take advantage of this non-monogamy he is purporting (no sex for me, maybe a date or 2) with my ex who had been trying desperately to reconnect. I have been tuning him (my ex) out esp. since I have been seeing my new boo...the one who won't agree to being monogamous.
Any suggestions on what to do?
The relationship with the ex did not end badly...I slowly drifted away...I felt he needed to see...how much of a good thing he had with me... I think he has learned his lesson.
By the way...username was created for anonymity.
Any suggestions on what to do?
The relationship with the ex did not end badly...I slowly drifted away...I felt he needed to see...how much of a good thing he had with me... I think he has learned his lesson.
By the way...username was created for anonymity.