AnjelLuvs
Well-Known Member
So I meet this guy at a friends BBQ say 3 weeks ago... All dude did at first was text, okay cool you at work, but then to start texting that night, I went along with it because frankly I didnt want to talk and could get back to text whenever felt like... The next day all he does is text again,but later that night, I again go along, but at a point as it is nearing 11:30pm I am like you can call sometime, I am going to bed, and dont respond to his text till next day....
The next week same thing, now though text are getting later, I received one at 12:01 like what you doing, I respond that next morning like sleep...
following days SAME freaking MO, I go back and forth for a few then say I am going to bed or something... I really do need to find another way to stop shenanigans, maybe I just need to be that B.... so I do, I tell him I am not into the continuous text thing and I informed him in past that he should call, he denies it, so I text exactly what I stated, he gives some BS, so I am like call sometime implies to call....
At this time I am already tired of phone games I am like lets link up, he says he has something to do, ok... the next week, say sunday the week of my bday I ask what doing etc, I forget what he says but we didnt meetup.... ALL this time when I text/speak to him I express how excited I am for bday to past, etc etc and so forth.... Last we spoke on phone was Tuesday...
NOW, Wednesday, July FOURTH, which I think is a memorable day, was my bday... He didnt call nor text...
Now today 7/13 @9;30pm, he texts "Hey".... Like WTF, I didnt respond...
I really dont need advice but wanted thoughts, maybe some advice if you have some, Lol...
I feel like I am too nice... Lol, no seriously...
erplexed
The next week same thing, now though text are getting later, I received one at 12:01 like what you doing, I respond that next morning like sleep...
following days SAME freaking MO, I go back and forth for a few then say I am going to bed or something... I really do need to find another way to stop shenanigans, maybe I just need to be that B.... so I do, I tell him I am not into the continuous text thing and I informed him in past that he should call, he denies it, so I text exactly what I stated, he gives some BS, so I am like call sometime implies to call....
At this time I am already tired of phone games I am like lets link up, he says he has something to do, ok... the next week, say sunday the week of my bday I ask what doing etc, I forget what he says but we didnt meetup.... ALL this time when I text/speak to him I express how excited I am for bday to past, etc etc and so forth.... Last we spoke on phone was Tuesday...
NOW, Wednesday, July FOURTH, which I think is a memorable day, was my bday... He didnt call nor text...
Now today 7/13 @9;30pm, he texts "Hey".... Like WTF, I didnt respond...
I really dont need advice but wanted thoughts, maybe some advice if you have some, Lol...
I feel like I am too nice... Lol, no seriously...
erplexed
that people cant give you what you want or need unless you can articulate it clearly. If that's exactly how you phrased it, I can somewhat get him not remembering cuz it seems like a throwaway phrase. Aside from that, though, yeah, he trynna hit, of course, but with too little effort.
