clarity2008
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Yesterday I went to my little niece's 1st birthday party after work. I really wanted my SO to come with me but he did not get off until 6:30 and by then the party would have been over so I went by myself beacause my niece was in from out of town and I didn't want to miss her. So he calls me at 7:30 to say hi and I hear a bunch of noise in the background so I ask him where he is and he says he is on his way home. But he had gotten off an hour ago (we live 6 miles frome his job)so I was a little confused but I didn't say anything. So he went on to say that the traffic was bad and such. So whatever, I brushed it off and continued to mingle with my family. I say bye and go home. I get home and my SO and I are talking about our day and what not. He was sitting on the couch so I go sit next to him and we start making out (sorry if that's TMI) and I notice his breath smells like beer. And so I ask him why he tastes like beer...He kinda paused and gave a quick nervous smile and said "Oh because I stopped and had a Heiniken (sp?) at the bar next to the office."
I guess it threw me off because he doesn't really go to bars...at allerplexed. He RARELY drinks. In fact, if I wanna chill on the weekend and get a little tipsy w/ him he almost always rejects and let's me do all the drinking...Oh and the fact that he paused didn't reassure me either. So I was weirded out and got up and got on the computer. He could tell my mood changed and asked if I was mad that he went out for a beer. I told him no but I guess I'm not really good at hiding my emotions. So then he gets all frustrated and defensive and says my attitude sucks.
Am I trippin? Should I be worried?
I don't care if he goes and has a few beers after work at all. But it's just not like him. So I'm just wondering if he went with someone else and doesn't want to tell me.
He is always talking about this chick he works with named Jane. He's always saying how Jane is so funny and cool and blah blah blah....
Should I let this go?
Am I being extra?
I guess it threw me off because he doesn't really go to bars...at allerplexed. He RARELY drinks. In fact, if I wanna chill on the weekend and get a little tipsy w/ him he almost always rejects and let's me do all the drinking...Oh and the fact that he paused didn't reassure me either. So I was weirded out and got up and got on the computer. He could tell my mood changed and asked if I was mad that he went out for a beer. I told him no but I guess I'm not really good at hiding my emotions. So then he gets all frustrated and defensive and says my attitude sucks.
Am I trippin? Should I be worried?
I don't care if he goes and has a few beers after work at all. But it's just not like him. So I'm just wondering if he went with someone else and doesn't want to tell me.
He is always talking about this chick he works with named Jane. He's always saying how Jane is so funny and cool and blah blah blah....
Should I let this go?
Am I being extra?