LadyPaniolo
New Member
Oh, MBriggs.... This is a hard one, I'm sorry this happened... I'm sure it's a bit embarrassing for you.
Honestly, it sounds like he was running some game. He has probably been crowing to his friends about how he has an educated sista taking care of HIM like he's a dayum SAHM while she is out grinding.
Ok, he knows he has to go but have you seen him DOING anything to comply with your wishes? Has he gotten a job? Has he been looking through the want ads, checking out apartments? Because anyone knows it takes about a month to find a decent place, get your credit report/background check for the landlord, pay your deposit etc so you can move in.
If you haven't seen him doing those things... you may need to help him to comply with your wishes by reminding him over and over that he needs to be OUT by such and such a date. You can rent a little storage joint for cheap and pack alla his stuff and put it there, and have the locks changed on the day before his deadline. If he wants to cut up, be sure you have some backup (male friends, male relatives, and be ready to call the police) because he may well plan on intimidating you physically in order to get an "extension".
In all reality though, he's probably going to just find someone else to sponge off of... another woman with her act together who won't realize how worthless he is for a few months at least.
Honestly, it sounds like he was running some game. He has probably been crowing to his friends about how he has an educated sista taking care of HIM like he's a dayum SAHM while she is out grinding.
Ok, he knows he has to go but have you seen him DOING anything to comply with your wishes? Has he gotten a job? Has he been looking through the want ads, checking out apartments? Because anyone knows it takes about a month to find a decent place, get your credit report/background check for the landlord, pay your deposit etc so you can move in.
If you haven't seen him doing those things... you may need to help him to comply with your wishes by reminding him over and over that he needs to be OUT by such and such a date. You can rent a little storage joint for cheap and pack alla his stuff and put it there, and have the locks changed on the day before his deadline. If he wants to cut up, be sure you have some backup (male friends, male relatives, and be ready to call the police) because he may well plan on intimidating you physically in order to get an "extension".
In all reality though, he's probably going to just find someone else to sponge off of... another woman with her act together who won't realize how worthless he is for a few months at least.