Suri
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I am pretty much at the end of the road with my relationship. He has about 2 months before his papers expire.
When I think back to the time I have spent in monogamous relationships in my life, I have been in serious relationships since my senior year in H.S! That's nearly 10 years of my life that I have spent sharing myself with someone else. erplexed Oh no...
I believe what has made this realization so uneasy for me is that they have all (2) ended pretty badly. They were major relationships in my life and what a blow that is to have them both end and end on bad terms.
My current SO and I met online which I thought was cool and different. We really connected well ( i know...i know) and he was unlike the other men I had met, possessing qualities that I liked but compromised before. So I thought, why not? We got serious and now we're here. I am sooo stressed out these days it's unbelievable. He seems lazy, abrasive, argumentative and I swear he is going to grow into a bitter person. Sometimes we argue and mouth is wretched! I feel like the worst is being brought out of me and that must stop!
I am in a state of shock because now the qualities that he loved about me are a problem. Now I'm too sensitive, when we first met he was so happy that I could express myself. It seems like everything is an arguement. Somedays are good, but other days I want to stab him in his sleep . Ok I don't mean that. He has good qualities, but right now they're not at the forefront. Unfortunately, because of complications we have to remain roommates at least until June. So right now I'm just trying to deal. He thinks that once he moves we can clear our heads and still date...uh not likely.
I am ready for the first time in my life to let go, and heal myself from all of those years of relationships.Ugh, I never got into them on purpose they just seemed to happen and I was so unaware of what I was doing. I feel like I am moving out or going to college, because I will be on my own. Wow, I have to avoid men... , but seriously I just wanted to share this, it's really empowering for me and I have a feeling it's going to be a great time for me.
When I think back to the time I have spent in monogamous relationships in my life, I have been in serious relationships since my senior year in H.S! That's nearly 10 years of my life that I have spent sharing myself with someone else. erplexed Oh no...
I believe what has made this realization so uneasy for me is that they have all (2) ended pretty badly. They were major relationships in my life and what a blow that is to have them both end and end on bad terms.
My current SO and I met online which I thought was cool and different. We really connected well ( i know...i know) and he was unlike the other men I had met, possessing qualities that I liked but compromised before. So I thought, why not? We got serious and now we're here. I am sooo stressed out these days it's unbelievable. He seems lazy, abrasive, argumentative and I swear he is going to grow into a bitter person. Sometimes we argue and mouth is wretched! I feel like the worst is being brought out of me and that must stop!
I am in a state of shock because now the qualities that he loved about me are a problem. Now I'm too sensitive, when we first met he was so happy that I could express myself. It seems like everything is an arguement. Somedays are good, but other days I want to stab him in his sleep . Ok I don't mean that. He has good qualities, but right now they're not at the forefront. Unfortunately, because of complications we have to remain roommates at least until June. So right now I'm just trying to deal. He thinks that once he moves we can clear our heads and still date...uh not likely.
I am ready for the first time in my life to let go, and heal myself from all of those years of relationships.Ugh, I never got into them on purpose they just seemed to happen and I was so unaware of what I was doing. I feel like I am moving out or going to college, because I will be on my own. Wow, I have to avoid men... , but seriously I just wanted to share this, it's really empowering for me and I have a feeling it's going to be a great time for me.