FAMUDva
Well-Known Member
BEAR IN MIND THAT BSL IS NOT CONSIDERED LONG TO PEOPLE OF OTHER RACES.
In fact I generally see most women of other races with BSL hair and this doesn't even turn my head, when I see a woman with MBL to WL or longer THEN I turn and look at her hair, BSL on a black woman would make me look at her hair but NOT on a white, asian, middle-eastern, etc woman.
Yeah, I've learned that other races don't consider BSL to be long. Like the hispanic girl I work with who is full BSL and says she has medium length hair. I just used BSL as a starting point for illustration in the question because it seems to be a goal of many here. I does say something even that with BSL not being long to other races and it being considered long to us here. As a matter of fact, I noticed on other hair boards those women start with APL-BSL hair and are chasing 40" of hair as their goal lengths. Meanwhile we are (again, the universal "we") talking about 15", 20", and 25" hair. I also get the fact that there is not much you can do with 40" of hair, but their standards seem to be ALOT different because of their experiences of what they see as long.
I know we inherit our genetics But what I am saying to you, is that I think the long haired gene, or short haired gene or whatever it is, is passed more from family to family, than being a racial characteristic!
But glad to know there are no hard feelings.
Love ya lots
Nah, never any hard feelings... I never catch feelings on LHCF . It's the place I come to escape my feelings . j/k