I wish I learned about proper hair care when I was a teenager.
Healthy inside = healthy outside.
Don't foresee natural any where in my future. I like wearing my hair down and I want it to be light and flowy. Natural doesn't give that to me. One bit of humidity and my hair reverts like crazy. Even stretching is out of the question anymore. I can hardly part my hair after 10-12 weeks.
Whenever I wear my hair down, I always seem to have to bump my ends in the morning so I end up using heat daily
I haven't had a real moisturizer in months....but my hair is still growing. Just bought some Kids Organics Moisturizer and Detangler
I can't do the protective styling all the time. I like wearing my hair out and I don't look right with ponytails.
I'm extremely lazy about moisturizing, sealing, DC....everything
I often lay on my cotton pillow without a bonnet or scarf
Thick hair is over rated
I have a brand new bottle of Shescenti hair masque waiting for me in the bathroom. It took all my strength and will power not to wash my hair this morning. I can hear the bottle calling me from 16 miles away.. "Maria.. wash your herr... Mariahhhhh" (yes my bottle has a Southern accent in my dreams)
Me too! I didn't realize I'd love it so much! I feel bad cuz so many people seem to have trouble with their hair, but I loooove mine.I really, really love my hair.
Really.
You are not alone. My hair doesn't feel the least bit conditioned after using DCs/masques. I thought my expectations were too high, but my coworker said her hair definitely feels conditioned.• I don't like deep conditioners as much as conditioners; they just don't perform the same on my hair at all. A lot of the time a deep conditioner will promise so much softness and moisture but my hair will be left feeling lackluster – the ones I'm referring to have that thick, masque texture that everyone but me seems to love.
Me too! I didn't realize I'd love it so much! I feel bad cuz so many people seem to have trouble with their hair, but I loooove mine.
I totally agree
Co-signing on the rinse out conditioners... Those have saved my hair so much... and the avocado egg treatment... pretty sure my sister wanted to murder me after I recommended it without trying it first. We both had crap stuck in our hair
You are not alone. My hair doesn't feel the least bit conditioned after using DCs/masques. I thought my expectations were too high, but my coworker said her hair definitely feels conditioned.
Wow... how did you get the food out?! I had matting in my hair so bad that I had to do a decent cut.
How often did you wash your hair when you came to the board? I'm guessing 1x/month? I think some people's hair needs that "constant" refresh of moisture so it'll be better for some to wash 1x-2x/week instead of further apart.I grew up washing my hair (with shampoo) at least once or twice a week. I stopped that when I came to the board. When I started transitioning, I went back to m regular use of shampoo and my hair is thriving.
I really, really love my hair.
Really.
Me too! I didn't realize I'd love it so much! I feel bad cuz so many people seem to have trouble with their hair, but I loooove mine.
Ugh, I tried everything and it only made a bit of a difference, I actually had to cut lol. I think I had to use half a bottle of Tresemme to get my hair to soften only a little. I could feel the roughness and it wasn't getting much better. I had a lot of breakage and had to cut out knots anyway so my hair was uneven and crazy; my stylist at the time evened my hair up, went from grazing WL to APL. I made my avocado mask super smooth because I used a blender but it hardened on my hair and made it feel like hay. At least it was easy to rinse out though.I too thought I was going to have to cut it because it was matted. I shampooed... and shampooed... and shampooed... and then deep conditioned (put regular conditioner in and let it sit for a long time lol)... rinsed it out and did it again... and again... and again lol... By the time I was done it still wasn't all out but I could detangle my hair (I had more than normal shedding/possible breakage) and I blow-dried my hair with the comb attachment and some pieces of avocado fell out. I still had to pick a few out after all that. Crazy crazy crazy. I'm going to try avocado oil also and see how it does.
I think, for both me and my sister anyway, we didn't blend it enough. It was really chunky instead of looking smooth like a conditioner. I thought about doing it a few weeks ago but nah, I'll pass. I have enough low cost/decent priced products that I don't have to go through all that.
Exactlyyyy! I think it's good to try a couple masks and deep conditioners because you never know, you might find a gem. Like I said, I like 4 lol but overall, rinse-outs > deep conditioners. My hair is fine once I keep it simple and give it a shot of protein. I think the board has to focus on rules for the general population but imo, if they rules don't work for you, try something different and you may be pleasantly surprised. Also, never mind what people say because it's YOUR hair and YOU know it best. Aussie is GREAT, sooo much slip, I just got sick of the smell.@Aireen
Funny that I'm reading where you say that your hair does better with rinse-out conditioners vs "deep conditioners." On this board, time and time again, it is said that nothing does as well as a deep conditioner that is designed as such. I've also found that my hair behaves better with rinse outs. And, you ain't lied when you point out the cost. When I first joined the board, I about lost my mind and a grip of my money splurging on all of the expensive, high-end conditioners. I got a hold of Aussie and stepped up to Humectress and have been more pleased with my results.
For those of you using rinse out conditioners, do you use heat with it or just use it in the shower?
I was a Wen girl at the time.How often did you wash your hair when you came to the board? I'm guessing 1x/month? I think some people's hair needs that "constant" refresh of moisture so it'll be better for some to wash 1x-2x/week instead of further apart.
Hey girl!Have to cosign this. Even when I neglect my hair, it behaves. Went backpacking for 9 weeks, trying random conditioners; neglecting it for a few days when water was not an option; sleeping in buses, trains, tents, and on rough hostel sheets, and it just behaved. She is very kind to me and I love her for it. Plus she always looks fabulous.