Well, OP, I think your wishes are definitely limiting. You want a Black guy, right?
I would PREFER a black guy, but I am not totally opposed to entertaining men of other races. Where are the black guys? Can they not afford computers? Are they playing X box? That's a depressing statistic.
Are you in your 30s? Your options for a fit man in his 30s will also be limited. I just don't see many men post 30 with bodies that look well taken care of. Men like that are in the minority, for sure ( though I think in a few years that will be at least somewhat different).
I choose to disagree with that. I am 35 actually and am in better shape that I was in my twenties. If I raise that bar for myself, I will definitely do that for the man in my life. To even settle for that generalization is more depressing that the "black men aren't online" stereotype. So, I should accept that men are just gonna be fat after 30? Ummmm... no.
I'm having a pretty decent experience online dating so far. It isn't everyday offline that I find someone whom I think is incredibly attractive,
The men don't have to be "incredibly" attractive. As another poster said, if they are that fine, they probably don't need online dating or they are looking for more notches in their belt, or they bat for the other team (I'm always nervous around guys that are tooo pretty. They don't want me), but I would like someone that I can at least LOOK at. These guys are tore up from the floor up.
I've been online for 2 months, have gone out with 8 guys. 3 of color, rest have been white, some cuter than others.
For me, that's okay. The one I've gone out with the most is the one I connected with well and who, IMO, turned out to be the cutest one (possible that my fondness for our conversations made him look even more attractive as the weeks went by).