kayte
Well-Known Member
Dating here and there with someone IRL...that's going well
he's awesome..we had a great date last night... movie,dinner and I made us walk a bunch of blocks..looking at half a dozen restauarnts even being seated in one and then abruptly chagning my mind(too noisy)
and him ..you don't want to stay? we're gone...
before I decided which one was perfect ..lol everlastingly humorous and patient...romantic...attentive...but not quite...exclusive material yet
but last fall I rec'd interest from someone from online...he's
this gorgeous guy...my age..and his job is professional career work
and he loves it..and he's also well travelled,speaks three languages,highly literary his masters is in linguistics..some thing like that, I think. He's also a writer and a good one!
At the time he expressed interest I was dating the mad professor and few other guys and it was holiday time and I was distracted.
We talked at least an hour on the phone...or emailed every other day...
but he'd immediately asked me out..right off.
I think I was intimidated by him,and put him off ..two weeks later he asks me out again...and once again I said I was really busy..but then I made the mistake of mentioning going to a concert and he figured out it was a date because it came up later in a fight..how he'd ask me out and I was busy with "my novel"..but he kept hearing about my being out doing that or this erplexed
up shot was....after the fight .. and two weeks of not talking..he decided to communicate and he tells me jokingly.....you're too much,K...
and asked me out again and this time I said YES....and but then he cancelled..I think he'd gotten fed up... and there was another fight and then no one was talking..and that was it.
I was so sad .. so MUCH in common...so good looking ..he was actually in a mag last fall..one of the very very few men who challenged me...he was quoting Dante or he appreciated that I am intuitive and the vibe was overwhelming spiritual & strong attraction ..he once said we were kindred spirits..he said....a lot of people "try" to be interesting..but that I was authentic..
I said really ? he said yes ..you are something special... he was so sincere about that &...honest, I just knew this had incredible potentional
so I was VERY said that it was disconnected ...and I was the one who'd sabotaged it.
so...l'm out with friends last week and one of my best friends said ..
how's the love life... I said ah! just so-so
and my friend who knew how about ..(we'll him call Luke)
said how about Luke?
I was shocked...I talked to my friend about many guys..I didn't think he'd remember any of them...let alone specifically mention Luke...though, I could only smh
he said THAT is the one for you ...I said really? you think?
I said I have not heard from Luke since he broke our date..and that was months ago!..my friend was adamant..GET IN TOUCH WITH HIM
I was like "oh....noooooo"
well imagine my surprise when I get out of the blue..the following week
there is an email from him!!!! He'd actually emailed it five days before I saw my friend but.... I saw it the week after
Hi, how have you been? I was in XXXX for about six weeks in January and February. I think you'd love XXXXX and especially XXXX, it's such a great city. Beautiful and interesting architecture, easy going friendly people, great outdoor cafes and general sense of the bohemian life. It's also a place where leftist and anarchistic graffittii still has meaning-much like the lower east side in the old days of the seventies. Anyway, I hope you're well and creating wonderful things with your awesome talent.
I'm off to XXXX in May for a few weeks so I'm studying intensely right now-3 hours a day. I'm also brushing up on my XXXX! Cheers.
I emailed back..it was eight days later all together
Hi ~
It sounds like you are doing great
wow..XXX sounds really really lovely...
Cafes are my cathedrals...
How'm I? Well, nothing so exciting as your travels.
I'm waiting to hear about the novel..trying to be optimistic as the days go by.....
thanks for the kind compliment~
I saw some interesting travel writing ops..but not as a traveler per se?....but more from a perspective of an interesting person who like adventures and culture within the travel experience. I immediately thought of you..and hoped you were blogging
and/or doing something of the sort....your writing's so good
Yes, cheers!
Have a great time~
wondering
now what?
he's awesome..we had a great date last night... movie,dinner and I made us walk a bunch of blocks..looking at half a dozen restauarnts even being seated in one and then abruptly chagning my mind(too noisy)
and him ..you don't want to stay? we're gone...
before I decided which one was perfect ..lol everlastingly humorous and patient...romantic...attentive...but not quite...exclusive material yet
but last fall I rec'd interest from someone from online...he's
this gorgeous guy...my age..and his job is professional career work
and he loves it..and he's also well travelled,speaks three languages,highly literary his masters is in linguistics..some thing like that, I think. He's also a writer and a good one!
At the time he expressed interest I was dating the mad professor and few other guys and it was holiday time and I was distracted.
We talked at least an hour on the phone...or emailed every other day...
but he'd immediately asked me out..right off.
I think I was intimidated by him,and put him off ..two weeks later he asks me out again...and once again I said I was really busy..but then I made the mistake of mentioning going to a concert and he figured out it was a date because it came up later in a fight..how he'd ask me out and I was busy with "my novel"..but he kept hearing about my being out doing that or this erplexed
up shot was....after the fight .. and two weeks of not talking..he decided to communicate and he tells me jokingly.....you're too much,K...
and asked me out again and this time I said YES....and but then he cancelled..I think he'd gotten fed up... and there was another fight and then no one was talking..and that was it.
I was so sad .. so MUCH in common...so good looking ..he was actually in a mag last fall..one of the very very few men who challenged me...he was quoting Dante or he appreciated that I am intuitive and the vibe was overwhelming spiritual & strong attraction ..he once said we were kindred spirits..he said....a lot of people "try" to be interesting..but that I was authentic..
I said really ? he said yes ..you are something special... he was so sincere about that &...honest, I just knew this had incredible potentional
so I was VERY said that it was disconnected ...and I was the one who'd sabotaged it.
so...l'm out with friends last week and one of my best friends said ..
how's the love life... I said ah! just so-so
and my friend who knew how about ..(we'll him call Luke)
said how about Luke?
I was shocked...I talked to my friend about many guys..I didn't think he'd remember any of them...let alone specifically mention Luke...though, I could only smh
he said THAT is the one for you ...I said really? you think?
I said I have not heard from Luke since he broke our date..and that was months ago!..my friend was adamant..GET IN TOUCH WITH HIM
I was like "oh....noooooo"
well imagine my surprise when I get out of the blue..the following week
there is an email from him!!!! He'd actually emailed it five days before I saw my friend but.... I saw it the week after
Hi, how have you been? I was in XXXX for about six weeks in January and February. I think you'd love XXXXX and especially XXXX, it's such a great city. Beautiful and interesting architecture, easy going friendly people, great outdoor cafes and general sense of the bohemian life. It's also a place where leftist and anarchistic graffittii still has meaning-much like the lower east side in the old days of the seventies. Anyway, I hope you're well and creating wonderful things with your awesome talent.
I'm off to XXXX in May for a few weeks so I'm studying intensely right now-3 hours a day. I'm also brushing up on my XXXX! Cheers.
I emailed back..it was eight days later all together
Hi ~
It sounds like you are doing great
wow..XXX sounds really really lovely...
Cafes are my cathedrals...
How'm I? Well, nothing so exciting as your travels.
I'm waiting to hear about the novel..trying to be optimistic as the days go by.....
thanks for the kind compliment~
I saw some interesting travel writing ops..but not as a traveler per se?....but more from a perspective of an interesting person who like adventures and culture within the travel experience. I immediately thought of you..and hoped you were blogging
and/or doing something of the sort....your writing's so good
Yes, cheers!
Have a great time~
wondering
now what?
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