Wow summed up so well with the first post. ITA!Nope
That he has 3 babymamas tells me everything I need to know about any future I'd have with that dude.
Wow where do I even begin? lol
He was much older than me. 12 years my senior, we worked together two summers. He had a successful career and a smart head on his shoulders. He told me about the 3 kids, with 3 diff mamas from the jump. I left it as a co-worker-co-worker relationship.
But at the end of the summer he told me how he felt. I was apprehensive. I mean c'mon.....3 kids?
But I dunno wah happened. we flirted. we talked. we fell in love. 2 years later, it got too serious for either of us to handle. I knew my parents would never accept it, neither would his family. So we both agreed to end it. It hurt cuz we genuinely loved about each other.
No i didnt have to deal with baby-mama-drama lol.
And we both took STD tests from the same hospital and the same time and shared our results. In fact we STD checked twice before we became intimate
And yes I know some think its was stupid. But hey, it is what it is.
Exactly, the guy I date with 3 kids, laid it all out on the table at the beginning. Everyone was being mature, no calling at 2am nor showing out. It was smoother then some guys that I dated who didn't even have kids.I
ETA: After reading the entire thread it is funny that most think that children bring drama. I have two daughters, two different fathers and no drama. It's the adults in the situation not the children. But a man with no children can be EVEN more trif than one with them. I know I have dated both. Being irresponsible sexually does not just mean you have children. The same can be said for someone who has no children but is still not being responsible sexually.
Exactly, the guy I date with 3 kids, laid it all out on the table at the beginning. Everyone was being mature, no calling at 2am nor showing out. It was smoother then some guys that I dated who didn't even have kids.
BTW I don't have kids.
I just hope those saying they wouldn't date a guy with 3 kids\3 BM don't have children themselves. If you do, why are you throwing rocks knowing good and well you live in a glass house. I know I am going to get the replies, that's just my preference. So be it.
Exactly, the guy I date with 3 kids, laid it all out on the table at the beginning. Everyone was being mature, no calling at 2am nor showing out. It was smoother then some guys that I dated who didn't even have kids.
BTW I don't have kids.
I just hope those saying they wouldn't date a guy with 3 kids\3 BM don't have children themselves. If you do, why are you throwing rocks knowing good and well you live in a glass house. I know I am going to get the replies, that's just my preference. So be it.
NO WAY!!!! Obviously he has not mastered proper condom usuage and I am not trying to be baby mama #4!!!!!Apparently he gets every woman he sleeps with preggers. I can deal with one baby mama/ex-wife and that is it!!!!
I hate to be harsh but I have never met a man with multiple baby mamas that was worth my time.
Do not pass GO! erplexed
LOL..I'll bite. I have one child and I voted that I would not date a man with 3 kids by 3 women. That is just my preference and I wasn't throwing rocks. One is cool with me as that is what I bring to the table.
I would date a guy with 3 kids, but not three baby mamas. If they were all from a divorce or something then yeah maybe. But that's too much laying up, shacking up and not marrying up for me.