CaraWalker
Well-Known Member
my ex was indian and i would say race issues were probably about 60% of the reason why we broke up. to put a long story short, he was one of those indians that coveted whiteness, and eventually i came to believe that if i were white certain parts of our relationship would have been very different. i think he would have been breaking his neck to marry me if he didnt have all these weird issues with race. so i broke up with him. i dont want to condone his behavior, or the fact that as the red flags emerged i didnt get out sooner, but everything else in our relationship was perfect.
the weird thing is now that weve broken up hes dating another black girl and dont even ask me how i know this (BECAUSE HE SENT ME AN EMAIL WITH PHOTOS ATTACHED BRAGGING ABOUT HOW HAPPY HE IS ) and i know damn well all those issues didnt go away, so why is he inflicting it on another black girl? a cynical part of me believes its because he can get higher quality/more attractive black women than white women which is his real preference. and now that ive softened him up on the race issues maybe he thinks theyre gone erplexed and it wont be a problem this time? or that SHE will be less willing to point them out, or not notice.
i feel like on some level hes just trying to replace me. it just doesnt make sense to me.
what do you think about guys like this?
the weird thing is now that weve broken up hes dating another black girl and dont even ask me how i know this (BECAUSE HE SENT ME AN EMAIL WITH PHOTOS ATTACHED BRAGGING ABOUT HOW HAPPY HE IS ) and i know damn well all those issues didnt go away, so why is he inflicting it on another black girl? a cynical part of me believes its because he can get higher quality/more attractive black women than white women which is his real preference. and now that ive softened him up on the race issues maybe he thinks theyre gone erplexed and it wont be a problem this time? or that SHE will be less willing to point them out, or not notice.
i feel like on some level hes just trying to replace me. it just doesnt make sense to me.
what do you think about guys like this?