Chichi
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Re: Never Thought I\'d Consider The \"N\" Word
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Irresistible said:
yeah Adrienne's hair baffles me, she certainly has beat alot of odds that i could never beat with the relaxer. shooo not even come close to even. her hair is truly beautiful...but then all my life my sister could relax and have healthy hair and i couldnt , and that baffled me too , (and im talkin her hair was thick and full and sickening lol) not to mention frustrated me, her hair looked like mine does natural , all those years we were relaxing and mine just looked hopeless, lifeless, broken, damaged and dead , had me in tears all the time. i have no clue why it works out for some and not for others and it wasnt anything i did or didnt do, cause trust me i tried it all and my sister and hair dresser took me on as a case that they were determined to find a way to make the relaxer work....it just wasnt happening...so all i can say is if you can have hair like Adrienne (or my sister) while relaxed then go for it...but if not, then go natural!!
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Do you have wavy hair? From your pictures, it looks like you have wavy hair. I think that my hair type (2C) is similar to yours. Wavy hair does not do well with relaxers because it is the hardest hair to straighten (didn't know this until my last relaxer LOL
). My stylist told me this and it was also suggested in Essence that wavies use a SUPER strength relaxer to get the waves out. During my last relaxer, that relaxer was sitting so long on my head that I asked my stylist about it and that was when she told me.
So what I am getting at is that before a wavy gets her hair straight, the relaxer will have to beat those waves into submission; the result is dead, lifeless hair. It's a paradox because, I can feel my new growth and it feels strong, silky, and vibrant. Yet with a relaxer, it suffered. I think it's because they don't make relaxers for wavies. Just my $.02.
Chichi
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Irresistible said:
yeah Adrienne's hair baffles me, she certainly has beat alot of odds that i could never beat with the relaxer. shooo not even come close to even. her hair is truly beautiful...but then all my life my sister could relax and have healthy hair and i couldnt , and that baffled me too , (and im talkin her hair was thick and full and sickening lol) not to mention frustrated me, her hair looked like mine does natural , all those years we were relaxing and mine just looked hopeless, lifeless, broken, damaged and dead , had me in tears all the time. i have no clue why it works out for some and not for others and it wasnt anything i did or didnt do, cause trust me i tried it all and my sister and hair dresser took me on as a case that they were determined to find a way to make the relaxer work....it just wasnt happening...so all i can say is if you can have hair like Adrienne (or my sister) while relaxed then go for it...but if not, then go natural!!
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Do you have wavy hair? From your pictures, it looks like you have wavy hair. I think that my hair type (2C) is similar to yours. Wavy hair does not do well with relaxers because it is the hardest hair to straighten (didn't know this until my last relaxer LOL
So what I am getting at is that before a wavy gets her hair straight, the relaxer will have to beat those waves into submission; the result is dead, lifeless hair. It's a paradox because, I can feel my new growth and it feels strong, silky, and vibrant. Yet with a relaxer, it suffered. I think it's because they don't make relaxers for wavies. Just my $.02.
Chichi