Neith
New Member
This is really hard for me to post...
Ladies... do not neglect your edges or your nape.
I dunno why, but I would rarely pay attention when I was moisturizing them.
I would get up, wet them, put some IC Fantasia Gel on them, brush them just a few strokes with a very soft brush, put a headband around them to keep them laying down and let them dry.
I would throw some jojoba oil on them at night sometimes.
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
I should have known.
I DID notice that my hair looked thin in the back as it was getting longer. I did notice that my edges were a little short/sparse. My hair is layered, that's why I thought it was thin at the ends. My edges and nape are naturally fine and fragile, so I didn't take notice of them slowly but surely breaking off.
Um. I feel dumb.
I got the camera out and really got a close look at what's going on...
Edges... just over an inch, but regular thickness. Nape... also just over an inch also, but very sparse.
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
I knew in the back of my mind I was neglecting them, but I thought since I have been relaxer free, they didn't need babying.
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
So, yeah. I'm venting.
I'm so desperate I'm going to start using MN every other day. Against my better judgement, lol.
On the days I don't use the MN I will use aloe vera gel and neem oil on my scalp.
I'm going to moisturize nightly, fingercoil them and keep them coated in castor oil 24/7. No brushing.
I'm okay with it. At least it's not very noticeable. I mean... I didn't even notice it until I sat down and really paid attention. They were always gelled down... I had no idea!!!!!!!!! Probably because I'm dumb.![Blush :blush: :blush:](/smilies/blush3.gif)
Ah well. Think of this as a cautionary tale. Don't neglect your edges or nape, especially if they are fine... even if you are natural/going natural. I even assumed since my nape and edges were my looser/silkier parts that they didn't need as much care.
Pics -
:
How could I not realize it you ask? This is how my hair looks done:
At this point, I was noticing that my edges were a little thin, but I didn't understand the severity of the situation.
I thought it was a little thin at the ends because of layers![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
I'm a loser aren't I? I'm a hair loser
Feel free to laugh at me.
Should I cut it off?
Ladies... do not neglect your edges or your nape.
I dunno why, but I would rarely pay attention when I was moisturizing them.
I would get up, wet them, put some IC Fantasia Gel on them, brush them just a few strokes with a very soft brush, put a headband around them to keep them laying down and let them dry.
I would throw some jojoba oil on them at night sometimes.
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
I should have known.
I DID notice that my hair looked thin in the back as it was getting longer. I did notice that my edges were a little short/sparse. My hair is layered, that's why I thought it was thin at the ends. My edges and nape are naturally fine and fragile, so I didn't take notice of them slowly but surely breaking off.
Um. I feel dumb.
I got the camera out and really got a close look at what's going on...
Edges... just over an inch, but regular thickness. Nape... also just over an inch also, but very sparse.
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
I knew in the back of my mind I was neglecting them, but I thought since I have been relaxer free, they didn't need babying.
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
So, yeah. I'm venting.
I'm so desperate I'm going to start using MN every other day. Against my better judgement, lol.
On the days I don't use the MN I will use aloe vera gel and neem oil on my scalp.
I'm going to moisturize nightly, fingercoil them and keep them coated in castor oil 24/7. No brushing.
I'm okay with it. At least it's not very noticeable. I mean... I didn't even notice it until I sat down and really paid attention. They were always gelled down... I had no idea!!!!!!!!! Probably because I'm dumb.
![Blush :blush: :blush:](/smilies/blush3.gif)
Ah well. Think of this as a cautionary tale. Don't neglect your edges or nape, especially if they are fine... even if you are natural/going natural. I even assumed since my nape and edges were my looser/silkier parts that they didn't need as much care.
Pics -
![Frown :( :(](/smilies/frown.gif)
![img0897jo4.jpg](http://img181.imageshack.us/img181/8342/img0897jo4.jpg)
![img0891cropid8.jpg](http://img133.imageshack.us/img133/9076/img0891cropid8.jpg)
How could I not realize it you ask? This is how my hair looks done:
![29150662ut8.jpg](http://img509.imageshack.us/img509/7682/29150662ut8.jpg)
At this point, I was noticing that my edges were a little thin, but I didn't understand the severity of the situation.
![17051844bv1.jpg](http://img509.imageshack.us/img509/3727/17051844bv1.jpg)
I thought it was a little thin at the ends because of layers
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
I'm a loser aren't I? I'm a hair loser
![Frown :( :(](/smilies/frown.gif)
Should I cut it off?