Hi!
i'm not natural but i have friends and relatives who do it well, therefore...:
1. even though long hair is most of our goal, you are pretty whether you have long hair or short. pretty is a state of mind! beautiful hair is a matter of health, not just length. whether i fit a certain standard or not, i know i am pretty because my God made me "very good"! pray and seek the Lord for some CONFIDENCE! who cares what these other people think is pretty???! in God's eyes
i am a queen!
2. regular condition washes moisturize your curls and maximize the beauty of your hair's curl pattern. see peachtree's link or do a search on condition washes for inspiration.
3. if coloring is an option for you, explore another haircolor that is flattering. see tracy for inspiration.
4. if you like makeup, accentuate your best feature.
5. hats, scarves, and accessories like glasses, jewelry, etc., are hotttt!
forgive me, but i love accessories, because hair doesn't always equal style or class!
6. eyebrows must be tight. beautifully arched brows wonderfully finish a face.
7. make sure you supplement with vitamins and eat and drink healthy (plenty of water and fresh fruits and veggies) because even BETTER than long hair to me are beautiful skin and teeth.
imho. and of course being beautiful inside.
8. exercise so that you're in good shape and your skin glows. pamper yourself too!
if you're doing all this, by the time your gorgeous natural hair grows out, you will be tight, the total package. oh btw visit nappturality.com for more info on natural hair. hth!