Cincysweetie
Well-Known Member
Ladies, this situation is sooooo weird and I just need to vent!!!! I guess I could have put this in OT but oh, well. So, my stepmother's good friend is married to this guy. Me and the guy happen to work together. He's in his mid-late 40s, 3 kids (2 women), a HUGE flirt, and he apparently first met me years ago when I was 17. He and his wife are currently seperated (not divorced) and he is dating/living with another woman that also works at our place of employment. erplexed Well, early on I started getting some weird vibes from him...that made me a little uncomfortable. You know those LOOKS...the undressing you with his eyes, the stares at certain body parts. Now it's progressed to comments...blatant, inappropriate comments. Yesterday, in not so many words he basically put me on notice that something sexual would happen between us at some point. My response..."No, that will NEVER happen". It's made worse by the fact that he gives me these obvious looks in front of his girlfriend (who then at times acts weird towards me)...and the fact that he's friends with my parents (eew)...and STILL MARRIED.
I really just needed to vent but I'm open to hearing suggestions on how you may have handled unwanted sexual advances on the job. And this may be wrong on my part, but I do NOT want to get management involved. I feel like it would just make the situation messier.
I really just needed to vent but I'm open to hearing suggestions on how you may have handled unwanted sexual advances on the job. And this may be wrong on my part, but I do NOT want to get management involved. I feel like it would just make the situation messier.