Detroit2Dallas
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I am currently talking to a guy that lives in a while notha state and we have never seen each other but we have great conversations.
How we met:
I have a youtube and on my youtube I have links up to my website, this guy saw my videos, went to my website and used the "contact me" page to send me a quick message. This was in September. I get ALOT of men that do this, they send me messages through youtube or my contact me and I mostly ignore them unless i send a thank you for watching message or something along that line. Well "B" sent me a message that gave his full name, location, number and business info. This he what it sent after watching a yt video of mine:
Beautiful You
Just wanted to say how beautiful you are. Thanks for speaking up for us, the good black men. We dont get a shake enough as life would have it. Im a bonafied, certified, celebrated me, I'm just happy to see a beautiful sister unafraid to speak up for us. Feel free to respond or text me @ ***-***-**. "B"
It had the city and state he was in and gave his email address and full name. One day I was sick in bed, and was bored so I decided to send him a text that said something like (well after I had googled as much info as I could cause I'm nosey like that and I was NOT disappointed when I saw who he was and what he does
). So I sent him a text message that said something like this:
"although you abused my contact form I'll forgive you if you have a great convo since I'm sick in the bed today
"
look: yes I'm dramatic)
Anywho,
I guess I felt comfortable contacting him because he was very honest in who he was, what he did and where he lived and idk something just said respond differently....idk. Anyway since that day (in Sept) we have talked almost everyday and have had really good conversations. We dont discuss sex or anything inappropriate, we just really enjoy talking to each other.
Whats currently happening:
So he is going home to Louisiana for Thanksgiving and has a layover here in Dallas and so I'm going to try and sit with him during his layover so that we can chat in person and get a feel for things and he's talking about coming back to dallas for a few days because his dad lives here and he wants to spend time with him (he's actually searching for him but thats a whole nother story) and when he comes back we plan on going out and having fun (we both like to do corny stuff).
Thats just about it, he seems genuine, and just a good natured, honest person. We have video chatted a few times and I'm looking forward to meeting him, like I'm really looking forward to meeting him and I'll update this when I do.
He's pretty tall and very handsome with kind eyes, if that makes sense. When we first did video chat he thought it was so funny that when I stood up I didnt go very far
since I'm like 5'4/5'5.
Bottom line, brotha man is cool as a cucumber and if nothing else I would love to keep him as a life long friend. Hope I didnt bore you ladies, since not much "juicy" stuff going on. I'll let you guys know how our first in person encounter goes.
How we met:
I have a youtube and on my youtube I have links up to my website, this guy saw my videos, went to my website and used the "contact me" page to send me a quick message. This was in September. I get ALOT of men that do this, they send me messages through youtube or my contact me and I mostly ignore them unless i send a thank you for watching message or something along that line. Well "B" sent me a message that gave his full name, location, number and business info. This he what it sent after watching a yt video of mine:
Beautiful You
Just wanted to say how beautiful you are. Thanks for speaking up for us, the good black men. We dont get a shake enough as life would have it. Im a bonafied, certified, celebrated me, I'm just happy to see a beautiful sister unafraid to speak up for us. Feel free to respond or text me @ ***-***-**. "B"
It had the city and state he was in and gave his email address and full name. One day I was sick in bed, and was bored so I decided to send him a text that said something like (well after I had googled as much info as I could cause I'm nosey like that and I was NOT disappointed when I saw who he was and what he does
). So I sent him a text message that said something like this:"although you abused my contact form I'll forgive you if you have a great convo since I'm sick in the bed today
" look: yes I'm dramatic)Anywho,
I guess I felt comfortable contacting him because he was very honest in who he was, what he did and where he lived and idk something just said respond differently....idk. Anyway since that day (in Sept) we have talked almost everyday and have had really good conversations. We dont discuss sex or anything inappropriate, we just really enjoy talking to each other.
Whats currently happening:
So he is going home to Louisiana for Thanksgiving and has a layover here in Dallas and so I'm going to try and sit with him during his layover so that we can chat in person and get a feel for things and he's talking about coming back to dallas for a few days because his dad lives here and he wants to spend time with him (he's actually searching for him but thats a whole nother story) and when he comes back we plan on going out and having fun (we both like to do corny stuff).
Thats just about it, he seems genuine, and just a good natured, honest person. We have video chatted a few times and I'm looking forward to meeting him, like I'm really looking forward to meeting him and I'll update this when I do.
He's pretty tall and very handsome with kind eyes, if that makes sense. When we first did video chat he thought it was so funny that when I stood up I didnt go very far
since I'm like 5'4/5'5. Bottom line, brotha man is cool as a cucumber and if nothing else I would love to keep him as a life long friend. Hope I didnt bore you ladies, since not much "juicy" stuff going on. I'll let you guys know how our first in person encounter goes.
