I swear, it seems like men can do no wrongbut let a woman version of him come along and no one would want her.
They think their p*ssy is lined with Gold, and he would NEEEVEEEER do that to her.Cause sistas always seem to believe it when the man tells them that everything wrong in his marriage/relationship is the fault of his wife/SO....sistas buy it everytime![]()
I swear, it seems like men can do no wrongbut let a woman version of him come along and no one would want her.
Cause sistas always seem to believe it when the man tells them that everything wrong in his marriage/relationship is the fault of his wife/SO....sistas buy it everytime![]()
Because they are silly, and are willing to put up with a messed up man in order to have a man.![]()
I wonder sometimes why men do this..are they too scared to be alone...
True -- but on the other hand look how much flack single women get, even on this board? I can understand why some women need the security blanket..
I actually think men are more needy in some ways then women are..seems like if a man is used to long term relationships he'll always find a woman to fill that role.
So this man is messing up his life and the life of his wife and now he is trolling to mess up the life of some other woman.
Okayyyyyy
I wonder sometimes why men do this..are they too scared to be alone...
Oh, I understand it. Still doesn't make any sense, but I definitely understand the urge to do so.
And, thinking of needy men, my uncle is a PERFECT example. I think he's on wife #5 now (early 60's?), and he's cheated on EVERY wife he's had with the next wife. Every. Single. One. Wife #4 cleaned him out, too - took the house, the car, half the pension - did that stop him? Not in the least.
My grandmother coddled him his whole life - as recently as 4 years ago, he would roll his tail in my grandmothers house, plop down, and make HER get up to get him a damn drink of water.How you gonna have your 80 y/o mother fetching your water, still?
But that same attitude shows in his relationships - he stays with a woman. Stays. Because he doesn't know how to - or doesn't care to - take care of himself.
And for some reason, women just eat it up.
Couldn't be me.
Oh dear.
I'm broke, off work sick and am now living back at my mums. I go online because I'm lonely. I'm as bad as your uncle.![]()
I told him to get himself together financially and finish his divorce before trying to date...
Am I wrong?
It seems to make sense to me.....
I still don't understand how he meets these women and they accept him AS IS.
Advice, comments ladies?
Cause sistas always seem to believe it when the man tells them that everything wrong in his marriage/relationship is the fault of his wife/SO....sistas buy it everytime![]()
Is the wife the one that wanted the divorce?
He's a habitual lover and leaver...and he probably shouldn't be married in the first place...moreso he need to have him a suitcase with some wheels on it so that when he finds the "next one" he can pack his shyt and move on with the quickness...it seems like he enjoys the thrill of the whole process and when its boring he
is done.
Its a game to him...he can find more desperate/lonely women online since their pages will tell it all...can't just walk into a club/party/social gathering and just read someone like that...online allows him to *mask* and play his games easily than anywhere else...In regards to the women its enough desperate/lonely ones out there to fall for his line of krap...I mean its a bunch of "krap-ola" at its finest...