BlkOnyx488
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He picks up our son from school in the afternoons. Usually they stay and play for an hour or so at the playground. He met a woman there who is the babysitter of one of my son's classmates. They talk almost everyday.
Apparently she has to be on a dialysist machine and is on the list for a new kidney. She of course has never asked my husband to donate his kidney, but she did tell him she is "O" positive, which is his blood type.
My husband gives blood and platelets regularly at least once a month. He has also donated bone morrow once. And of course he is an organ donor on his DL.
But I was not expecting him to ask me this. My initial response was to suggest he research on what happens to the donor after they give a kidney. And he said, "So, basically you don't want me to do this."
I said, "Look I know you like helping people I do too, but to give a body part, you have to look at how this could effect the rest of your life. They always talk about the person recieving the donation and what happens, but about the giver."
I hate being selfish but I am concerned about my husband not this woman I have never met.
So what would you do if your husband wanted to donate a kidney to someone he has only known for 3 weeks that he sees at a playground?
He picks up our son from school in the afternoons. Usually they stay and play for an hour or so at the playground. He met a woman there who is the babysitter of one of my son's classmates. They talk almost everyday.
Apparently she has to be on a dialysist machine and is on the list for a new kidney. She of course has never asked my husband to donate his kidney, but she did tell him she is "O" positive, which is his blood type.
My husband gives blood and platelets regularly at least once a month. He has also donated bone morrow once. And of course he is an organ donor on his DL.
But I was not expecting him to ask me this. My initial response was to suggest he research on what happens to the donor after they give a kidney. And he said, "So, basically you don't want me to do this."
I said, "Look I know you like helping people I do too, but to give a body part, you have to look at how this could effect the rest of your life. They always talk about the person recieving the donation and what happens, but about the giver."
I hate being selfish but I am concerned about my husband not this woman I have never met.
So what would you do if your husband wanted to donate a kidney to someone he has only known for 3 weeks that he sees at a playground?