Suerte
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good advice. Sex should be pleasing for both partners. Women tend to be less upfront with their feelings. I know I haven't always been truthful. Too many black men are dying at alarming rates because of obesity related issues.
Right. And men tend to need to hear things real easy and direct. She already said he is the type who doesn't care what people think and that she already tried the kind and gentle "I love you and I want you to be the best you can be" approach.
When I was younger I was always at my best in relationships. I was never the type to let myself go...in fact I tried harder. If that makes sense. But since I had gained a little weight...the guy I'm dealing with now only dates tall light skinned women over 200lbs with at least a DD cup and really girly dressers (high heels, dress clothes, hair, nails and makeup, etc)... so needless to say, my weight loss efforts haven't been going where I want them to go Sometimes I wish he would just go for the jugular and call me a lard ass or something so I'd be hurt and go cry somewhere and stay the hell out of Wendy's.