As mean as this may sound, and not to sound like you are better than anybody....but you are who you associate yourself with. A friend and I were discussing the other day that if you look around at most successful people, you will clearly see that they surround themself with other successful people. I know that once I stopped associating with people who were going nowhere in life and started associating with people who were at least trying to do something with theirs, I also became more ambitious, more goal oriented, and started looking at the big picture instead of the small scale. Dont forget that misery loves company...one of my nursing instructors said friends are like an elevator...they can take u up or bring you down.
THE COMPANY YOU KEEP
It Is Better To Be Alone, Than In the Wrong Company
Tell me who your best friends are, and I will tell you who you are. If you run with wolves, you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights. : A mirror reflects a man s face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses- The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those with whom you closely associate for the good and the bad.
The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve. Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your mediocrity. An important attribute in successful people are their impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people. As you grow, your associates will change. Some of your friends will not want you to go on. They will want you to stay where they are. Friends who don't help you climb will want you to crawl. Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dream. Those that don't increase you will eventually decrease you. Consider this:
Never receive counsel from unproductive people.
Never discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing to the solution, because those who never succeed themselves are always first to tell you how. Not everyone has a right to speak into your life. You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange ideas with the wrong person.
Don't follow anyone who's not going anywhere. With some people you spend an evening: with others you invest it.
Be careful where you stop to inquire for directions along the road of life.
Wise is the person who fortifies his life with the right friendships.
