MOODY Males

[butterfli]

Anyone know or dated a MALE who is moody! I mean moody like they say females are. You have to keep guessing what the deal is? Is that showing a "female" trait. I cannot say all females are moody, but I know I can be and seeing a moody male has taken me OUT of being moody! Never seen this before! Just too much!!!

 

[caribeandiva]

OMG.. THANK YOU FOR STARTING THIS THREAD! I was gonna start a similar one.

I'm dealing with one right now. He's mad at me and I don't even know why. He's completely ignoring me so that makes it worse. I figured I'll leave him alone until he comes to his senses.

 

[song_of_serenity]

GAH!!! GOING THROUGH THIS NOW!! >;/ Moody as heck!! I was being ignored and came to find out tonight it was over something stupid!!

 

[butterfli]

Exactly...I can be on the phone talking to him or him over at my place and we are laughing and having a good time and then I get up to go to the restroom, come back, and then the silent treatment. Ask him what is wrong and he says nothing with a somewhat attitude. Then I spend the night trying to ask him what is his problem and then ignoring and letting him know that I am gonna have a good night...and back and forth with that mess. Then he comes to being sane and is laughing and joking with me. WTF????? I am thinking he is NOT going to come to his senses...but he is not going to make me be insane LIKE HIM!!!!

 

[caribeandiva]

...and they accuse US of being moody?

 

[rabs77]

Ah Memories!
A guy I used to date, I was 18? was Mr Mood swings on legs. We dated for about a 1 1/2yrs until I got tired and quit. He picked up that bad habit in the last 6 months. Come to find out he only acted that way cos I would always react. "What's wrong?" "What did I do now?" Niggre please Trust me if you stop reacting and responding to his mood swings he will quit. Just try it for a week. Totally ignore him when he flips. Leave the house, pick up a book, do something else. It's so immature I've never had a guy act like that since.
eta
Id leave if he doesn't come around. Have you tried talking to him about it?

 

[tada1]

Ah Memories!
A guy I used to date, I was 18? was Mr Mood swings on legs. We dated for about a 1 1/2yrs until I got tired and quit. He picked up that bad habit in the last 6 months. Come to find out he only acted that way cos I would always react. "What's wrong?" "What did I do now?" Niggre please Trust me if you stop reacting and responding to his mood swings he will quit. Just try it for a week. Totally ignore him when he flips. Leave the house, pick up a book, do something else. It's so immature I've never had a guy act like that since.
eta
Id leave if he doesn't come around. Have you tried talking to him about it?

@ the bolded!

 

[HoneyA]

My ex was really moody. I think he just wasn't in the place he wanted to be so that made him brood sometimes. Anyway whatever, not my problem now...
Like someone said though, you don't feed into it. You back off and let them just snap out of it. I mean we are moody sometimes too.

 

[MD_Lady]

I couldn't date a moody dude. I had a moody male friend and got tired of wondering which version of him I was going to encounter that day. Thanks to him, my tolerance for moody men is even lower.

 

[lux10023]

yes---i think we've all been there--and i think it has alot to do with their sign...

i dont deal with moody males or females--i will leave u right there with your moodswings and KIM...lol

 

[locabouthair]

I can't stand moody men. In the past, if a man was moody I would just stop speaking to him. I dont have time for all of that.

 

[Duchesse]

I can't stand moody men. In the past, if a man was moody I would just stop speaking to him. I dont have time for all of that.

That's definitely me. I'm way too even tempered for moody folks. I very briefly dated this guy who would always have a snarky tone to his voice, and didn't know how to communicate properly, and would switch up his mood quickly. Not for me attall.

 

[frizzy]

I've never dated a moody man, but I have had a supervisor that was one. Bishassedness at it's best! He was harmless though, in a punk spineless way.

 

[gn1g]

yes usually they a GAY!

 

[awhyley]

Ah Memories!
A guy I used to date, I was 18? was Mr Mood swings on legs. We dated for about a 1 1/2yrs until I got tired and quit. He picked up that bad habit in the last 6 months. Come to find out he only acted that way cos I would always react. "What's wrong?" "What did I do now?" Niggre please Trust me if you stop reacting and responding to his mood swings he will quit. Just try it for a week. Totally ignore him when he flips. Leave the house, pick up a book, do something else. It's so immature I've never had a guy act like that since.

This is what I don't understand. Did he view that as entertainment of some sort?

I know about Moody men, because of people in my family, and I don't like it. It almost seems borderline abusive to me because whenever something isn't going right in their lives, they want to stir **** with you. I learnt to avoid them a long time ago, and let them stew in their own juices by themselves. Usually, they just go and annoy someone else. OP, depending on what his problem is, I wouldn't invest too much in this relationship.

 

[DiamondDivyne]

yes---i think we've all been there--and i think it has alot to do with their sign...

i dont deal with moody males or females--i will leave u right there with your moodswings and KIM...lol

Hmmm....care to elaborate on the sign? Which ones are moody?

 

[ScorpionQueen]

Hmmm....care to elaborate on the sign? Which ones are moody?

In my experience, Cancer can be very moody and emotional..Gemini can change moods like the weather..

 

[rabs77]

This is what I don't understand. Did he view that as entertainment of some sort?

I know about Moody men, because of people in my family, and I don't like it. It almost seems borderline abusive to me because whenever something isn't going right in their lives, they want to stir **** with you. I learnt to avoid them a long time ago, and let them stew in their own juices by themselves. Usually, they just go and annoy someone else. OP, depending on what his problem is, I wouldn't invest too much in this relationship.

In a way I think it was a control thing, you know. I think they do it a couple of times, you react, and they realise, hey, I kinda like the attention I get when I act moody. Who knowsIt really is a sign of insecuirity to me. All I know is 1 day I finally had the strength to say enough is enough and actually quit. After a week he came begging, said he would change. I gave it another shot,and he never acted up again, but then he had already pushed me over the edge so it didn't last too long after that. There really is a thin line between love and hate, and bruh's actions tipped me across that line. Don't know much about signs but he was a LEO if that means anything **shrugs**

 

[ScorpionQueen]

moody men are NOT the business..

 

[caribeandiva]

In my experience, Cancer can be very moody and emotional..Gemini can change moods like the weather..

and scorpio too...

 

[ScorpionQueen]

and scorpio too...

heeeeeey!

 

[Duchesse]

....Cancer and Aries.....

 

[awhyley]

Don't know much about signs but he was a LEO if that means anything **shrugs**

Leo's like plenty, plenty drama . . .

 

[ladylina]

I married a moody man lol, i think a lot of it has to do with his sign he is a gemini, when he gets an "attitude" I just ignore him, I aint got time for that.

 

[SweetNic_JA]

my ex is a moody Capricorn... man he was moody. A nice guy but too moody. That's ultimately why that relationship ended.

 

[rabs77]

Wow looks about every sign in the zodiac is moody

 

[ladylina]

When i read this thread I said the same thing but I truly believe it is gemini's really because my husband and his sister are gemini and they can be so happy, then the next minute they are angry about something.