So my my hubby's brother had the nerve to tell me, my expectations and standards for marriage are not realistic and that I need to lower them. So because my hubby got a wife who he knows is not going for him sliding in the home at 6 the next morning is not realistic expectations...huh? Oh...because he go out with friends and I expect him to not slide in the home the next day with the sun up is controlling...huh? Him chucking you the deuces because it's getting late is all my fault....huh? You can keep the he is a grown man yadda...yadda! How about you mind your damn business!