Millenials Avoiding Sex.

Solila said:
My friend and I just met two men like this. My friend's friend is probably worse. But I don't know. Mine is pretty bad. lol my friend's friend has not had sex in 20 years, takes random women at bars on dates but everybody is a "friend" (yet does the most odd friend- like things, like pay for the dinner and sharing food) , and continusly talks about all sexual things. He puts himself down a lot too.
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I don't believe he aint having sex though. He's just slutting around with a bunch of women being emotionally unavailable and putting them in that relationship purgatory
 
FemmeFatale said:
It is. People barely interact with each other anymore. I am sooo thankful that my SO isn't into SM like that, he's barely on his phone when he's around me.

People are becoming so weird and socially inept. I don't think it's normal for people to prefer their gadgets over human interaction.
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I think this is what people have been waiting for their whole lives! :lol:

I met my SOs mom recently. We were at her house. She was on her iPad for the first half of us being there! She was still engaging us and talking and being interested, but still! And I didn't find it all that weird......cuz my mom does the same ish! :lachen: the exact same ish. She will sit there and be talking to you while fully engrossed on her phone! It's infuriating. 60yr old women! Smh.
 
Zaynab said:
It's so strange how people revel in that whole "I don't like people/I don't do people/I don't do relationships because x, y, z" So everyone just gonna be alone and in the house posting on SM? There is this weird movement with young people that makes it seem as if being isolated and non-committal in relationships is the wave. Hell not even relationships, they don't even have friendships it seems. I totally do not get the loner culture. And it's a major reason why I do not allow my 14 year old to have SM and access to the internet. I don't want him getting weird AF.
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You can't miss what you never had. I hear people complain about how friendships, relationships, or even having siblings is overrated. I would too if the people around me were all shitty, disconnected, or unable to commit. These are the same people who can't manage quality relationships on any level, so if they came across someone worth connecting with, or are even super nice to them, they wouldn't know what to do or value it any.
 
qchelle said:
I think this is what people have been waiting for their whole lives! :lol:

I met my SOs mom recently. We were at her house. She was on her iPad for the first half of us being there! She was still engaging us and talking and being interested, but still! And I didn't find it all that weird......cuz my mom does the same ish! :lachen: the exact same ish. She will sit there and be talking to you while fully engrossed on her phone! It's infuriating. 60yr old women! Smh.
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Right, it ain't just the youngins. I see all ages getting sucked into the vortex lol BTW, isn't this board SM? Lol just saying :lol:

Thankfully I haven't had to witness too much SM or electronic obsessed interactions. Everyone I know has a healthy balance of real and virtual in their lives.
 
@keyawarren @Zaynab You would think that's the case, but I don't think it is. She's told me that he gets very close and personal with people. Specially so that he can know your background. He is all up in people's business...all the time. Even people who are not paying him any mind. He's especially got a problem with white women...and he's a white man. He stays calling them basic, and talking about how he can't stand them, and yet...seems to love black women. As for himself he's said himself "Nobody is checking for this anyway." He's even said he should wear a sign that tells women not to check for him. Lmaooo

@TCatt86 Oh she's running. He intentionally took her on a date, paid for everything, and then told her don't expect this to be a date....after doing all of that. And don't expect nothing afterward. Lmaooo I can't. By the way, my friend is black.
 
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Meh.

I'm a chronic sex avoider but I have unpopular offensive opinions about the OP.

The OP is not a sign of anything good or normal.

I also know that I'm not the typical sex avoider. I'm very old school in my reasoning. My grandmother and mother are just like me.

There's a lot wrong with the average sex avoided so this ish is not a compliment.
 
Rocky91 said:
The "it's not worth it" argument I can get down with. I mean, I guess.

But all these antisocial, can't be bothered with talking or interacting with other human beings people that the smartphone culture is breeding is scary as **** to me. :nono:
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This.

These m0f0s are socially inept. They have no game. Males and females. They cant get anyone they want so of course they hate effin.

Betcha if any of them had decent social skills they'd be effin like rabbits like every other generation.
 
Solila said:
@keyawarren @Zaynab You would think that's the case, but I don't think it is. She's told me that he gets very close and personal with people. Specially so that he can know your background. He is all up in people's business...all the time. Even people who are not paying him any mind. He's especially got a problem with white women...and he's a white man. He stays calling them basic, and talking about how he can't stand them, and yet...seems to love black women. As for himself he's said himself "Nobody is checking for this anyway." He's even said he should wear a sign that tells women not to check for him. Lmaooo

@TCatt86 Oh she's running. He intentionally took her on a date, paid for everything, and then told her don't expect this to be a date....after doing all of that. And don't expect nothing afterward. Lmaooo I can't. By the way, my friend is black.
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Self debasing.

His esteem is extremely low. It's making me itch.
 
As a women, I don't know how casual sex can ever be satisfying. A man is already going to more selfish because the event is casual. Men have a tendency that one-size-fits-all when it comes to pleasing a women. Women have a tendency of not demanding or being ignorant to what they want. Couple that with people who know how to make 150 emoji from scratch more than they know how to (let's keep this pg) um.. passionately kiss is why sexuality and satisfaction is at a crisis in my generation.

I can't see why people aren't even bothering the social task of sex, I can't even get some people to call me on the phone. How awkward casual sex must be for them.
 
I'm technically an older millenial. Living in NYC men are just so weird even with the numbers in their favor! I go out to a party filled with them to meet someone and they are either stuck to their phone or the wall. Modern age feminism has them unsure of how to be men at this point. For a man to step to you is such a big deal now. As a sensual person, it is very frustrating for me. Most times when I wait to be intimate with a man it just isn't worth it. Sex has generally been awful. 29 yr old men with 60 yr old stamina and pornhub "skills" smh
 
keyawarren said:
You can't miss what you never had. I hear people complain about how friendships, relationships, or even having siblings is overrated. I would too if the people around me were all shitty, disconnected, or unable to commit. These are the same people who can't manage quality relationships on any level, so if they came across someone worth connecting with, or are even super nice to them, they wouldn't know what to do or value it any.
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Triple like! Or better yet these people are shitty as well, so like attracts like.
 
Rocky91 said:
The "it's not worth it" argument I can get down with. I mean, I guess.

But all these antisocial, can't be bothered with talking or interacting with other human beings people that the smartphone culture is breeding is scary as **** to me. :nono:
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Many people dont know how to communicate...maybe if they had more of an intellectual, emotional connection then sex probably won't be so bad....
 
Is a woman supposed to have game?


barbiesocialite said:
This.

These m0f0s are socially inept. They have no game. Males and females. They cant get anyone they want so of course they hate effin.

Betcha if any of them had decent social skills they'd be effin like rabbits like every other generation.
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GeorginaSparks said:
I get it. That was me when i was dating. I went on NUMEROUS dates but to have actual sex with them?


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My Mottos were "No sex is better than bad sex" and "acquire wealth, disregard sex". I learned that from a guy :lol:
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Yep. And when you add toys to the mix... I'm good lol :look:
 
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