Damaged but not out
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I also don't see these hazardous red flags.
Not to deter you from your decision, i also believe in intuition, if the fit feels wrong don't force it. Even after the highlighted explanation that was more your take on the situation than hard facts. Kind of feels more like you think ur not "good" enuff for this person, therefore he could only want u for some reason. And that reason must be ur super-virginity.
What i'm trying to say is, sometimes over-thinking everything destroys any chances of having something good.
Your probably right he is not the bf for you and you don't seem that bothered by it, so no one loses.
Not to deter you from your decision, i also believe in intuition, if the fit feels wrong don't force it. Even after the highlighted explanation that was more your take on the situation than hard facts. Kind of feels more like you think ur not "good" enuff for this person, therefore he could only want u for some reason. And that reason must be ur super-virginity.
What i'm trying to say is, sometimes over-thinking everything destroys any chances of having something good.
Your probably right he is not the bf for you and you don't seem that bothered by it, so no one loses.
My first said the same BS when we were together. He was all about marriage and a future together and all of that crap. We even went ring shopping. 
