PanamasOwn
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ok..so me and SO have been together going on 4 years now..we have had our ups and downs...but I wouldnt trade him for the world... technically we have been living together for about 3 years now.. (i had my own place and so did he, but I pretty cooked, showered, slept an did my hair there)
so now, we are wanting to get more serious about life and start saving for our wedding. We found a great place that will help save on gas, and we both can save on rent... BUT my mother disagrees...she loves my BF...even calls him son.. but she feels like it will fail if we move in together.. but she doesnt know, we have lived together for 3 years now....
There is also this lady that my mom goes to...a very strong, wise woman and she can tell you your whole life story just by looking at you...she told me flatout that he wasnt the man for me...!
I have done my own praying and soul searching and God has led me through quite a few jungles...and when I asked for God to show me my husband, I was shown my SO, on more than once occasion... and at first I thought it was just me pushing it, but even when we did have a falling out for some time and I despised him, I was still shown the same thing...
I dunno..I am trusting my instincts..but am kinda scared...I know we will be fine once things get going, I just dont want to create "tension" with my folks...
Has anyone gone through this and made it ? Any encouragement would be great...
so now, we are wanting to get more serious about life and start saving for our wedding. We found a great place that will help save on gas, and we both can save on rent... BUT my mother disagrees...she loves my BF...even calls him son.. but she feels like it will fail if we move in together.. but she doesnt know, we have lived together for 3 years now....
There is also this lady that my mom goes to...a very strong, wise woman and she can tell you your whole life story just by looking at you...she told me flatout that he wasnt the man for me...!
I have done my own praying and soul searching and God has led me through quite a few jungles...and when I asked for God to show me my husband, I was shown my SO, on more than once occasion... and at first I thought it was just me pushing it, but even when we did have a falling out for some time and I despised him, I was still shown the same thing...
I dunno..I am trusting my instincts..but am kinda scared...I know we will be fine once things get going, I just dont want to create "tension" with my folks...
Has anyone gone through this and made it ? Any encouragement would be great...