Theo
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There's this guy I met a house party a few months back. He's a little older than me, late 20s. We found out we were going to be moving to Boston to attend the same school at around the same time so we exchanged numbers. Honestly, he really seemed to be into me. I thought we were flirting. Plus he complimented me a lot. Anyway, I told this new dude I would hit him up whenever I made it out here....put him in the back of mind until now.
I texted him earlier this week and he responded very enthusiastically, he seemed so nice! He said he couldn't meet up this wknd cuz he had a BLSA thing (he's in the law school), but that we should DEFINITELY meet up next week. I'm thinking to myself like okay cool this is nice, I got me a nice older friend with a lil' bit of money (he had nice job before going back to school) and he is a gentleman to boot!
At least he seemed like it based off our interactions....
Of course I come to find out this guy is MARRIED. And of course it was through Facebook (aka the devil)
He had wedding pictures up, the wedding was over a yr ago... he married this GORGEOUS black women.... her dress was
So it got me trying to remember... did I see a ring on his finger? Did he mention he was married? Was he flirting with me or not? I mean, I thought so at the time.... also is his wife here? Is she okay with us meeting up? Was his wife in Chicago at the time? Why was he out so late without her? That was another thing that confused me. He was out until like 3am in morning! I assumed he was single... Are married men even supposed be hanging out that late? Also I feel like I remember him telling me he was moving up here with a roommate... was he talking about his wife?
erplexed Did he actually say wife? I mean it was a party, things were loud, I was a little tipsy.....
Lastly why does this happen to me? Its the story of my life since college. I have a penchant for attracting very eligible non-bachelors... Charismatic UEs with great careers, who are trifling on the inside with wives and LTRs
![Cry :cry: :cry:](/smilies/cry.gif)
Is it me? I dunno what's going on. I'm a good girl, I swear. Do I give out slutty vibes or something? Seriously why does this keep happening? Why does he have to be trifling? He was so cute! He was an HBCU GRAD! PERFECT! EVERYTHING WAS GOING SO WELL!!!
![Cry :cry: :cry:](/smilies/cry.gif)
I texted him earlier this week and he responded very enthusiastically, he seemed so nice! He said he couldn't meet up this wknd cuz he had a BLSA thing (he's in the law school), but that we should DEFINITELY meet up next week. I'm thinking to myself like okay cool this is nice, I got me a nice older friend with a lil' bit of money (he had nice job before going back to school) and he is a gentleman to boot!
![Yay :yay: :yay:](/smilies/yay.gif)
Of course I come to find out this guy is MARRIED. And of course it was through Facebook (aka the devil)
![Lol :lol: :lol:](/smilies/lol.gif)
![Love :love: :love:](/smilies/love.gif)
So it got me trying to remember... did I see a ring on his finger? Did he mention he was married? Was he flirting with me or not? I mean, I thought so at the time.... also is his wife here? Is she okay with us meeting up? Was his wife in Chicago at the time? Why was he out so late without her? That was another thing that confused me. He was out until like 3am in morning! I assumed he was single... Are married men even supposed be hanging out that late? Also I feel like I remember him telling me he was moving up here with a roommate... was he talking about his wife?
Lastly why does this happen to me? Its the story of my life since college. I have a penchant for attracting very eligible non-bachelors... Charismatic UEs with great careers, who are trifling on the inside with wives and LTRs
![Cry :cry: :cry:](/smilies/cry.gif)
![Cry :cry: :cry:](/smilies/cry.gif)
![Cry :cry: :cry:](/smilies/cry.gif)
Is it me? I dunno what's going on. I'm a good girl, I swear. Do I give out slutty vibes or something? Seriously why does this keep happening? Why does he have to be trifling? He was so cute! He was an HBCU GRAD! PERFECT! EVERYTHING WAS GOING SO WELL!!!
![Cry :cry: :cry:](/smilies/cry.gif)
![Cry :cry: :cry:](/smilies/cry.gif)
![Cry :cry: :cry:](/smilies/cry.gif)
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