Mz DEE DEE
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I have a friend who is in a relationship with a wonderful guy who wants to marry her. He treats her like a queen: takes care of her whens shes sick, expensive gifts, cooks her dinner, has a great relationship with her family, etc... He is well educated, makes a solid income ( 6 figs) but... she doesn't feel a strong sexual attraction. She said he tries to please her in the bedroom, open to suggestions etc and its not his "performance". She's considering ending the relationship because of the lack of sexual chemistry. IMO you cant have it all.... A good guy who would be an awesome husband and a great father but doesn't get you as hot and bothered as you like is still a good catch in my eyes because hes got points in the most important categories...am i wrong??