ambergirl
Well-Known Member
deltagyrlInteresting thread. I've experienced something similar. Ime, the men with the greatest sexual chemistry were the worst for me. The ones that I had to "warm up to" were better suited for me long term. A few months ago I broke it off with my SO who I had crazy chemistry with. I recently met someone who is a phenomenal guy on/off paper. I do not have the animalistic, primal urges yet, but this guy is so gentle and considerate and loving and respectful of every part of me that I know it's coming. He has what I need and that is sexy as hell. Hang in there and work on it. Be really, really honest with your guy and allow things to grow.
Yyyaaaaasssss!!! Kindness, gentleness, considerate, loving, accepting, respectful, caring....,girl I 'm getting hot and bothered for you! Throw in a sense of humor and not taking himself or life too seriously and it would be a done deal for me.