FlyyBohemian
Well-Known Member
Everyone's situation is unique so I cannot say whether or not his intentions are sincere. I would suggest that you tell him that you distanced yourself from him because you did not like the way that he treated you and you deserve better. Don't let him blame you for anything. Also tell him that you will not feel comfortable marrying him until he shows you that he has changed and that he will treat you with respect from now on. Tell him that even though you want to be married, marriage is not a decision that you take lightly because you want to be happy with the person you are married too. Tell him you can only be happy with a person who treats you well. Stick by your word and set your boundaries. Make him earn you. You should also tell him that you understand his situation and marrying him before he gets himself together is not an issue but you won't wait two years. This is so he doesn't try to string you along with excuses. You need to play the game to win.
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