My cousin is with her high school sweetheart who is her husband. They are both 45 and have children together. We ran into one of her classmates who was just delighted to hear they were still together. She says that she gets that all the time when she runs into people who know them both. She is so quick to say, that people look at the years but have no idea the work that goes into being together for so long. I used to do the same thing with older couples who were still together. I would see them laughing and enjoying each other and be pleased with how long they had been together. I never thought of the work and components that go along with the longevity of marriage. It was not until I myself got married that I understood what goes into a marriage and continue to learn today.